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Originally Posted by
gilwood 
I have this female friend for a couple of years now. Last year, maybe in November, we hung out and had some dinner together. I felt a little amorous after a bottle of wine, so I made out with her. I didn't contact her afterwards for maybe two weeks. Since then we've been in and out of contact for months. She's been acting real sarcastic with me lately. I figure she's pissed at me. So I'm assuming that she was interested in me and because I haven't chased after her, she feels rejected? It's not like she tried to call me or setup anything with me in those months. What gives?
Let's assume, by the implications laden throughout your post, that you're at least somewhat into this girl and would like for things to have gone further and/or for this drunken makeout session to have been the start of a romantic relationship of some sort. No use pretending that's not the case, because if your interests in her were solely platonic, you wouldn't feel the need to solicit advice. Now, if we can accept that first truth, let's move on to the second (and far uglier) truth. If this girl wanted something more, she'd be making that interest known. She'd be contacting
you. There would be no descent into awkwardness and in-and-out patterns of communication. Other folks here are going to tell you you blew it. The truth, unfortunately, may just be that there was nothing to have blown in the first place. She's just not that into you. Not in that way, at least. My best advice is to start hanging out as friends again, back to normal, and pretend as if this never happened. If she brings it up, that's a good sign. It means she is still thinking about it. If she never mentions it, neither should you. You have to choose between a friendship and a ruined-by-awkwardness friendship here. I would not place any bets on the romantic relationship outcome. So don't press for that if she doesn't.
