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ter1413 
Nope..
I wonder if getting married would change your opinion on this. I think, for people who haven't been married, marriage looks a lot more like a bigger version of what they've experienced in other relationships. The truth is that it's A LOT different, at least for many people. Walking away from a marriage, even a bad one, is fundamentally different from walking away from other relationships. This is multiplied when there are kids involved. If they can make it work, it sets an example for their children that marriage isn't something to be thrown away. Rather it's something that takes work.
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Originally Posted by
ter1413 
If you are...and your wife banged 10+ dudes, you could overlook it if she said that she was sorry?? If you are not, and your girl did(or your dude did), you could overlook that? Just curious...
I don't think I could, but I don't judge her for trying. I don't know that I could forgive and try to repair my marriage if something like this happened (fortunately, I have faith it will not), but I respect someone who has the strength to give it a shot.