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Originally Posted by
SpooPoker 
There is definitely validity to the mindset. The problem is that your personality, it seems, is much like mine in an impatient manner. You see it, you want it, you dont want to lose it. Thats why the auction format is such a mindfuck.
That's me in a nutshell. Shipping to Canada is terribly slow as it is, so waiting 3 extra days for the the auction to end with a possibility I might not even get it just bugs me too much. I find it's so rare to find anything good on ebay in my price range and size, so I feel like I need to jump all over it when I see it. But truthfully I don't have a great track record with ebay since I find lots of stuff looks different in person or fits different than I had hoped, so about 50% of the stuff I buy ends up getting flipped again or just gathering dust in my closet. For this reason I haven't used ebay in quite awhile. The reason I keep going back is because everything at the brick and mortar stores in Edmonton is really expensive and selection is very limited, so my options are find it on the internet or go without.
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Originally Posted by
SpooPoker 
What may work better for you is to offer the seller to end the auction at the price its listed at if you catch it early enough, and offer to seal the deal outside eBay, this way it saves him a few bucks in fees, and hes not quakin in his boots about a neg down the road. You have nothing to lose, and he has 2 wins in his court. Or...?
Interesting. I thought about just offering the guy $299, but I was worried he'd just brush me off and decide to take his chances in an auction. I sent him an email asking if he'd consider a BIN, and he responded he'd consider "any reasonable offers" at which point I offered $350.
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Originally Posted by
unjung 
Is $350 the most you would have paid? I would just set a gixen.com snipe up with a max of $350.
I picked $350 as an arbitrary number because I figured I was willing to pay up to $400 CDN for a good sportcoat and backed out estimated shipping and foreign exchange to get that $350. If it turns out to be the perfect jacket, I will consider that to be a bargain. But if it were a bidding war, I might have went as high as $375. But if I didn't win that, the altenative for me would be shelling out $800 for a very similar Samuelsohn sport coat I saw at a store since choice seems very limited.