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post #46 of 49
3/17/10 at 9:26pm
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Originally Posted by Matt View Post
there will be plenty more girls mate. Let this one go. Push it much further and you will be learning your first lesson about creepy stalker land.

+1 Her friend told you to give it up do everyone involved a favor and take the hint.
Get off Fb, talk to people, ugly girls, dudes, old folks, just learn how to talk to people and the next time you are around a hot girl treat her like a person (shocker, I know) and you'll find *gasp* she is one and will respond just like any other person.

All that said, if you still like her, just walk up to her and talk to her. She already shot you down once, the second time won't be any worse.
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post #47 of 49
3/17/10 at 9:42pm
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Originally Posted by Fuuma View Post
A party. You know, good music, wasted people, permissive climate, etc. You are 16-17, you're supposed to want to hump like you're life depends on it, don't go drink coffee and talk about your lameness. One thing you need to keep in mind is that, without dropping your pants or telling her you'd like to touch her in her knickers, you need to convey the idea that you're INTERESTED in the girl from the start, maybe start having that attitude with a bunch of girls you meet? I mean even if you aren't interested, sex by itself isn't bad.
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Or you could just drop tru and make a grab for her crotch, lord knows I've whipped it out a few times to great effect.
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post #48 of 49
3/18/10 at 12:27am
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Originally Posted by willpower View Post
From a female post on another forum:

I've never been one to make friends and then discover the attraction later on, if I'm initially attracted to the person I make it very clear and am even more attracted if they feel and show the same without fear. If they don't share that, if they prefer to give the illusion of a friendship, displaying no hint of interest, and then ask me out a year later, I guarantee I will reject them.

This is VERY true. Be confident, direct and tell them what you want. Trust me, they will be in awe of you and will respect you. Women are attracted to men they respect, not men they merely "like".
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post #49 of 49
3/18/10 at 6:51pm
Great advice here overall. Two things I'd like to point out particularly.

Do not, repeat NOT obsess over one girl. I wasted some of my best years like this. Believe me, you will not get this time back. It is a really bad idea. Move on quickly.

Take initiative, improve yourself, play the numbers game, pratice, practice, practice. Most guys who are not naturals never do that and end up with nothing. Don't be like that. This is a tremendously important skill. Work on it. Don't take it lightly. Take the advice from the good people here.
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