Dbear
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It's like from that song...having money doesn't make you happy, but not having money can make you miserable
"Having money ain't everything. Not having it, is."
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It's like from that song...having money doesn't make you happy, but not having money can make you miserable
They're from Acne. Model is called "Carlo" or something like that.
+1
Stop ******* instrumentalizing everything and everyone. I am sure some of you 4.7 gpas studying for a graduate degree in awesome (everyone here) will do fine but if you do actually think I am interesting (or that LAguy is interesting) you have to understand that it is not because we are older, it is because we care for (certain) topics in themselves, without having some sort of "get me a ******* medal" motivation for it. I know this sounds alien nowadays but that is the only way you won't be a dead-inside 30-something who has a good job and absolutely nothing interesting going on in their lives (except a bigger place and nicer car).
going into a vocation that pays well but isn't creatively fulfilling is usually the only way.
I don't have wealthy parents at all. I guess I'm fortunate in that I don't have a ton of student loans because my school paid for my tuition for me, but you don't have to get some ****** job in a cubicle in Springfield, USA just because you don't have a trust fund, that's absurd.
This is very ******* true.
It's also a mistake to believe your coworkers at job x must be worthless philistines or mindless gold-chasers or somehow less than human just because your interests don't happen to match up. Chances are, they are completely human, with equally ardent, but divergent, interests, and are probably even worthwhile, given half the chance. (If it helps, you can also remind yourself that Wallace Stevens worked in insurance, Bukowski was less a drunk than a model post office clerk, Chris Adrian is a doctor, Adam Haslett is -- gulp -- a lawyer, etc. ).
I don't have wealthy parents at all. I guess I'm fortunate in that I don't have a ton of student loans because my school paid for my tuition for me, but you don't have to get some ****** job in a cubicle in Springfield, USA just because you don't have a trust fund, that's absurd.
I once got downsized on Hawaiian shirt day.