I'm willing to donate $5 for a title change that's, well, less ghey. Urban Dictionary: bent over 3. bent over - One is considered "bent over" when they are being played, used, or stepped on. My boss totally has me bent over. 5. bent over - a word meaning to to have been put in a bad position normally through a bad experience man its freshers week, thousands of students wanting all day breakfasts all day, man i was bent over when those checks came rolling in. 6. bent over - To be owned or defeated very badly in something. To have lost without even given a chance. This kid called me a faggot, and before he could say anything else I power bombed him to the ground and stabbed him in the back with a knife, man was he ever bent over! I chose to use the ones that didn't involve penetration for obvious reasons.