Can the moderation of Style Forum please stop Piobaire from abusing me on this forum?
I've sent a number of moderators private messages to please help stop this member from his trolling activities and neither you or he will stop it.
I started by trying to stop this situation by sending him a private message to please respect my ignore of his posts. He has refused and trolls me all over the forum in threads I am trying to post respectfully in and has now exposed the fact that I sent him a couple of PM's to ask him to leave me alone. I give him permission to post the content here. I've nothing to hide.
I have sent a number of members PM's and also moderators. I took their feedback in and also provided feedback of my own. Anyone who wishes to expose my private messages may do so with my consent.
I will post this as an example of what I need to endure because of this asshole:
Originally Posted by idfnl
Jet, I have pmd you and a number of other members of this fora to ask them to leave me alone. If you look at his post history Piobaire has tried very hard to disparage me on this fora.
I'm openly providing an admission here and welcoming anyone to post the content of my PM's for inspection. I've nothing to hide. The moderation of this forum is not doing enough to stop abusive members like Piobaire so I took it upon myself to send PM's to members here to try and stop his abuse.
The fact that I tried to reach out to him first and he shat on me should serve to the forum that this person is not worth respect. He has exposed to everyone that I have reached out to him privately to stop abusing me. And he was burned above, and in character he's shown his true character by exposing the fact that I reached out to him via PM to please leave me the fuck alone. He has not. He will probably post my PM's to him. Go ahead, Piobaire, do it. I have your post history to defend myself. You're a troll so go ahead and post my PM history.
Piobare is a very abusive member of style forum. A number of folks that I have messaged privately have acknowledged this but have also sadly acknowledged that he is a jerk here but gets slack from moderation. This is unfair.
Piobaire is heavily engaged in abusive posts about me in Dumb Threads. A place I no longer engage in because its filled with banter that I don't find appealing. Member that choose not to engage in dumb threads should not be trashed in there, if those types want to behave that way let them, but me and many others don't want to be part of it. But again, moderation is not taking an active role in protecting its members from this behavior.
I make some stupid comments, don't proofread and have been an asshole in the past. Acknowledged. I try today
be a good citizen and provide good content here, for example threads I have started:
Must See Documentaries
Trolling the Stern Show
Finding Bigfoot (best thread on this fora, IMO)
Antiques, antiques auctions, recent purchases and discussion
Must Hear Podcasts
Formula 1 - F1 - Current Season Discussion
Down Comforter recommendations
Verizon Rant - better alternative to provided DVR?
Among many others. I actively participate in many threads. The wine thread, for example, where he trolls me endlessly.
In the Cars we Drive thread it has culminated here about my PM to him:
Originally Posted by Piobaire
I'll just say my reply to your rather high-handed whine was that I believe in stories of redemption and that it was all up to you. We can all see how you've sought redemption in the eyes of the forum. Speaking of which, where are you keeping the Douche of the Year award?
Redemption? That dick Bhowie was timed out for a week because he made a gross comment about my mother. Assholes here, including Piobaire started to pile on. I PM'd Bhowie and a few others this wasn't funny because my mom is a cancer survivor and lucky to be alive. What did Piobaire do? Basically shit on me again. And Bhowie who I also sent a PM? He created a thread about mother jokes. What a funny guy! EdinaAtlanta? Same thing, I sent him a PM, what did he do? Look at his post history. He created a thread called "Free Bhowie" and copied my avatar after I let him know how insensitive that joke was and to leave me along (before he started that thread, mind you).
I PM'd a number of people to let them know divorce sucks and this was a nice place to forget about it. But did some provide a normal 40 year old guy with kids get any quarter from these jerks? No. And did moderation try and set boundaries? Beyond 1 timeout? No.
So fuck StyleForum. If moderation won't set limits on these assholes I'm leaving. Go ahead and post your 'good', 'leave', ' you're an idiot' comments, like I care. The sycophants will start joining right in.
Can the moderation of this site please take a more active role in stopping these abusive members here? I'd like to participate but members like Piobaire are unwilling to leave me along and insist on abusing me. Should this thread require more evidence, I can provide approx 40 posts which show the trail of this members abusive behavior.
I encourage any member her to inspect my post history to see if my intentions here are just to talk about stuff I am interested in:
http://www.styleforum.net/forums/posts/by_user/id/39502Edited by idfnl - 1/14/13 at 8:54pm