also it's impossible for me to get a decent fit pic so this will have to do.
The many tribes of try-hard don't really get along. Lean too far out in any direction, and you'll probably stick out in all the wrong ways to everyone except your internet friends. Drapy arte povera neo-goth, hypebeast ass clown, urban lumberjack, pitti-sprezz, techwear ninja, whatever. Nobody wants to talk to that guy at a party. Unless they have drugs.
Grown-ass men chasing $300 drop crotch jersey capris, asymmetrical garment dyed tees with avant garde seam work, gigantic high tops with holograms and patent leather accents, 2k leathers that have been run through a dishwasher. $400 BDUs. It's not better than sized-down BoO, bowties, foobinacci sportscoats, red yeezys, or go to hell pants. It's just different. And it will just be as sad and dated in a couple of years as the rest of that shit.
Your day-to-day shit looks better broken in. 1, maybe 2 crispy pieces at one time. Fake distressing, even well done, is just higher level fakery. When it's time to dress up, polish your shoes. Or don't.