When people say they're too nice to get girls usually their actual problem is being an awkward dork.
It's ok CDHagg you've got time to figure it out.
Agreed. It's not like girls don't want you to give them flowers or surprise them with an unexpected date. Hell, guys love that stuff too. Not flowers but I am sure every guy here would be pretty happy if they got an unexpected gift from their gal that was well thought out. The issue is that a lot of nice guys aren't really nice but are just really wishy washy. Not saying that you necessarily fall into that camp CDH. But just imagine dating every charecter michael cera has ever been.
If you want the stereotyped "hot+dumb" chick, you have to probably be the stereotype of a "dumb hot" dude (most of the time). Which I guess is fine if you just want to hook up. But if you are trying to date someone then you can't try to suppress the "niceness". What you need to do is be confident at the same time. I think that people (girls and guys) want to date driven motivated people. Some people (guys and girls) get that confused for cocky and douchey. But chances are you will have more fun with that douchey juvenile person than the nice guy. And for many people out of college who are just getting started on adult hood and looking back at college and the fun they had, that fun > maturity.
But best advice right here:
Originally Posted by conceptual 4est
just be nice to other people and don't believe they owe you anything in return