CDHagg stated he didn't have a gf because his friends thought he was too "nice"... not enough of a douche. now I'm not getting into the whole psych game of Neil Strauss but it's close...that girls who fall for that shit are themselves douchettes so to speak. naive, mostly dumb, unsophisticated and subject to manipulation which is exactly what it is. so me being me, I don't mind bagging some ass for a good time but before you know it this girl will actually think you like her and what I'm saying is "uh right sweetheart... thanks for a good time, now there's the door".
I don't believe the majority of men on here who endeavor to cultivate intelligence, skill, style, professionalism, etc want to end up with a girlfriend or worse yet a wife who was procured by such means... but I think those girls are fun to play with because they amuse me.
Oh man, is this what I sounded like after I'd read that damn book? Now I feel shitty
Ok, since we're still on the topic some 2 days after CDH post: it can't possibly be a good idea to dress like a baller and spend money like a baller on a first date. Spending a shit load of money on the first date would make a lady feel obliged to put out because you spent a lot of money, putting her up against the wall. I think wearing a hoodie or some shit and spending <$50 is the way to go. Then you can bust out the Dior and douche scarf for the second date and follow through with a home run. #thegame
CDHagg stated he didn't have a gf because his friends thought he was too "nice"... not enough of a douche. now I'm not getting into the whole psych game of Neil Strauss but it's close...that girls who fall for that shit are themselves douchettes so to speak. naive, mostly dumb, unsophisticated and subject to manipulation which is exactly what it is. so me being me, I don't mind bagging some ass for a good time but before you know it this girl will actually think you like her and what I'm saying is "uh right sweetheart... thanks for a good time, now there's the door".
I don't believe the majority of men on here who endeavor to cultivate intelligence, skill, style, professionalism, etc want to end up with a girlfriend or worse yet a wife who was procured by such means... but I think those girls are fun to play with because they amuse me.
have you ever tried experiencing empathy or do you just scuttle home every day to your towering pile of human bones and shriek and howl at shit until daybreak
have you ever tried experiencing empathy or do you just scuttle home every day to your towering pile of human bones and shriek and howl at shit until daybreak
"This was a great Marina Abramovic performance piece"
saying you're "too nice" and therefore single is basically saying that all girls only go for shitty men/or should sleep with you simply because you're "nice" to them which is petty, if naive, generalizing/objectifying(?) and kinda makes you seem douchey coincidentally.
i always assume that when people say that, they mean that the nice guys never bed the sluttyhawthoes in clubs and bars. the douche bags always seem to get those chicks. but i think in the long run, quality girls do look for quality gents. just my opinion, as a guy who has never gone to a club, or even to a bar for more than a hour or so to grab a drink with a buddy.
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always a winnah.
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Kid, that worked in High School like a charm
I miss those days, now I am on the verge of proposing
great news!
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i dunno about everyone else but i'm just trying to drink shitty beer and never grow up.