CDHagg, you're not fooling anyone. I've seen you post before about how rude everyone here is and how polite you are, but you're not polite. Your verbosity is a form of condescension. The atmosphere isn't rude, just very casual. Everyone here is capable of writing the way you do, they just don't because they don't want to look like pompous assholes. There's social dynamics here and you can't just hammer your way in. You use a lot of words to say very little and when people give you advice you mostly find reasons why you can't consider it.
Also, your only support is coming from miran who is a certified troll and on most people's ignore lists.
It's called... frustration.
And actually, I think I've been very receptive to advice. Sorry if I've come off the wrong way.