You and Mok have great casual style and don't look like you're playing kiddies. Facial hair helps of course. Now that I think of it I'm probably the poster closest to your age in here. Hmmm.
I do put a lot of thought and effort into developing a personal style and I don't think where I've ended up is totally generic or unimaginative or pure following of trends. Is mine the craziest or most sophisticated style out there either? No, certainly not. It's what works for me, for now. That will probably change gradually as I learn more and get more feedback going forward.