Since you seem sincere I will not be my usual self here... I understand where you're coming from, dealing with the loss of loved ones is very difficult. However, there is no reason to be angry at Hirsch. We don't really know what's going on, but whatever the case may be expressing you anger isn't going to help anyone... except in the case where Hirsch is trolling, then whoever Hirsch is will be very, very happy with themselves that they managed to make you angry. OTOH, if Hirsch is genuine then your anger is only going to make her unhappy, and why would you want to be be responsible for making a terminally ill person less happy?
Just in general, I'm not sure everyone here understands that some people get off on making other people angry on the internet. I'm sure the responses to DP92 is a source of immense entertainment to whoever is trolling as him... Somewhere on some troll forum, a bunch of d-bags with no life are trying to see who can get stitchy to write them a poem.