Your experience losing the Virginity - Page 6

Do y'all really have that much trouble with the raincoat?

Not that important for your first time, but regular Trojans suck, do not buy them. There are (more expensive) condom like the Avanti Bare and a super-thin Durex that feel much better for both people. Don't believe that ribbed for her pleasure shit, either.

oh, and DATY - one way to last longer and get bonus points.

Then rumor must have gotten around that you're hung like a horse, because that shit stinks. Period.

Agree there, unless she instigates. Story to follow shortly.


Ummm, right here. She was on top, then I was on top, then I was behind her, then we stood up. Then again, I couldn't finish that first time. I did the second time, later that night.

So, OP, I was in a similar situation as you many years ago, my gf at the time was experienced, and a good deal more so than I. As we'd gotten to know each other, but before we did the nasty, she occasionally would question me and regale me with stories of her previous (deceased) lover. One time she told me of being handcuffed by her bf, but they were both drunk and he lost the key so he had to drop her at home and she hid from her parents until he produced the key the next morning. Yeah, that was rather daunting; the best I could come up with was maybe tying a few bow ties together and using those to restrain her: not quite the same.

But you know something? I still got laid, and it was still good, and though it ended like most relationships do at that age, we still talk once in a while and bear no bad feelings.


I confiscated the sprays from our boy and replaced them with a few select Carons and Guerlains.

He he he. You said INPUT.

You can practice putting a condom on, but you can't really practice taking it off when you're pulling out of a girl. You need to hold the base of the condom in place, or it can come off while you're pulling out. Sex is enjoyed when you are stressing about things. Thinking you've impregnated a chick makes you stress.

I like this thread. Its great to know what sex feels like since I'm most probably going to live in celibacy.. not at my own will though.

when did they cut it off?

That sodomy sounds like a lot of work--I'll leave that job to you.

My advice: be prepared mentally for things to not go the way you think they will... I was all ready with every strategy in mind to keep myself from blowing it early and when the time came we went for an hour before I gave up trying to finish and she started feeling guilty that I wasn't enjoying things.

True. I didnt blow the wad my first 2 times. I just kinda pretended that I did and it was all good. The important thing is to just roll with it. The worst is being all anxious and weird about things.

My advice? Jerk off. A lot. I mean a whole lot. Prior to losing it, I followed this advice, and the result was that I am the only person I know who had a good first time. It lasted about ten to fifteen minutes.

Also, don't have a plan. Anything artificial will distract you. Just go with the occasion and what feels right for both of you. The first time doesn't have to suck.

Watch American Pie.

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I lost my virginity to some almost random chick. I knew her but it was basically a quick fling and I was so happy to be having sex (I was fairly young at the time) that I blew quickly and I'm sure it sucked huge for her. In fact, I later found out that she'd told a couple people that the sex wasn't great but I had a magic tongue.

I think my suckage kind of continued with the next two chicks I slept with after that (again, both short term) until I had a steady girlfriend for a while who I got more regular "practice" with and who was willing to experiment with me and, most importantly, we established a rapport so I could get some feedback on what was working and what I thought was working but really was not. Of course, that's going to differ for every woman. Well, a few things will remain standard that they will all enjoy.

To this day, I sometimes wish I could go back and have sex with those women who I sucked with and show them what I've learned with time and experience but that's just to soothe my ego. The third girl I slept with was my friend's friend who was visiting her from the UK for the summer and we had a one-night stand. I'm still friends with her to this day (my friend, not the chick I slept with) and I sometimes wonder if her friend told her how awful it was since I really didn't know what I was doing at the time other than to stick it in there and pump for a few minutes. Well, I did know to get her warmed up a bit first .

My advice to you is not to sweat it. She's your girl and knows you're a virgin. She shouldn't really be expecting too much and you'll have lots of time to get better at it with her and that's where the fun will be.

1) This depend how easily you are excite, also depend the degree she is orgasmic! If she not like, if you cannot to give her plaisir, maybe she will to put you out from the room immediately! 2) Yes 3) Is more good to be betrunken, you can to use "French tickler;" if you lip the pussy you can to go head first! If you are fortunate maybe she will to lip your pénis!