Your experience losing the Virginity - Page 5

She was a friend who was a couple of years older, on top, I lasted all of like two minutes. Basically was immobile after busting and she stayed on too long... and on the dismount the condom went with her. No OTC Plan B then, just crossed our fingers and hoped.

Ok this is real advice. Half the people in this thread making fun of you are probably virgins themselves so fuck them. - I totally agree with Piobaire. I'd jack in in the morning and a couple hours before you go. - If you've never put on a condom before, for fuck sake practice a few times because that can be the biggest mood/boner killer in the world. - The first time I had sex I came in like 40 seconds. That's also because I was young, completely unexperienced, and had started masturbating not super long before that. If you don't want to be a complete embarrassment, you need a lot of foreplay. Keep it simple... make gentle circles on her vajayjay with the palm side of your middle and ring fingers. Insert only a little later once she's really wet. If you want to have any hope in fuck of making her cum, you'll have to do a lot of foreplay. I don't think you should try to go down on her your first time. - Once it's time for you to use your peepee, don't go right in. Definitely tease the outer parts of her girlyness for at least a few seconds. This will give you an idea of your own limits. Once you start fucking her, don't go too fast. I'd say about 60 beats a minute, so obviously once a second. That's not too fast and it's not weirdly slow and overly romantic. You aren't good enough for that most likely. Focus on long, smooth thrusts beginning from the back of your shoulders to your lower back. It will help you with your rhythm... consistency generally works, don't change your tempo too often. You can really ruin a woman's orgasm by speeding up or slowing down when she gets in the zone. - If you haven't gotten good at knowing when you're going to cum from masturbation, get good at that now. When you're fucking her and you feel like you're going to blow (in like 30 seconds, not at the actual beginning of the funny feeling because then you're fucked), pull out and finger her and make out with her/play with tits. For your own sake and hers, I wouldn't actually cum until maybe the third time you'd be able to. Let the feeling go away and then go back in so you're recharged for a few minutes. Other than that it's really up to you. If you care about the girl a lot then you should make it about her, she should feel like she isn't just a substitution for your hand. In general you should make eye contact often and kiss her etc... otherwise it just looks like she's your cum dumpster. Have fun and for fuck sake put two fingers at the base of your dick where the edge of the condom is when you pull out so you don't get any man juice in her. All your motions should be graceful and smooth, never jerky. Don't play with her tits like they're speed bags and don't grab too much... think of caressing first, and you can slap her ass the next time you get laid.

This is like a retarded version of MillionaireTeacher. Never knew that was possible.

+1 to what's been said. Also, please poast pics so we know it's real (but only if she's 18+, please). Good luck.

Also, if you feel yourself going to early flip her over and get her in a new position. Use the time in between to think about your grandparents.

dl

How old r u neways?

dl

wouldn't recommend doggie style for first time.

+1. How mny people actually switch posit on the first time? For me, it was missionary for all 39 seconds.

+1. Also hoisting her up against the wall isn't as easy as it looks. One slip and...

Cowgirl and reversed cowgirl ftw!

Take pics.

This goes for all activities. If she starts to get really into a movement, whether it's during penetration, oral, fingerbanging, whatever, keep at it until she gives you some kind of signal to stop (shifts her body, whatever). Even if you jack it twice during the day, you're not going to last long. That's okay. You're, what, 16-17? You'll be ready to go again in 20 minutes. And in another 20 after that. The worst thing you can do is start worrying about how long you can hold out - that makes the experience less pleasurable for both of you, and however long you think is normal for men (via porn or dudes talking or whatever) is probably several minutes longer than reality.

Practice putting on a condom. Go through a whole box by yourself before you hop in the sack. It's a distracting part of the sex process and the better you are at rolling one on, the less you'll stress out about it.

El Gay, keep the story about the first time you sodomized another man to yourself.