Originally Posted by r...
If she's the experienced one then let her take the lead. If she knows you've got the virgeen then dont worry so much about performance. If you feel insecure, keep your socks on. Forget everything you seen in the Pr0ns, now is not the time to try and knock it like a champ, take time to enjoy it, and smile.
PRO TIP: Never ask "Was it good for you?" afterwards.
Yeah, I've already forgotten about what goes on in the porn video's! I highly doubt I would be nervous enough to ask her about how it was afterward haha. Good advice though.
Originally Posted by CrocsRock
I'm going to assume that she knows it's your first time, in which case you might be able to take your cues from her. That said, you may also with to take charge and spend some time on foreplay (if it's your first time, this can help get her worked up without... finishing your end of the deal too quickly). Ask her what she likes and do it. Honestly, a lot of sex just comes down to communicating what you want (christ, that sounds dorky).
Don't worry about it too much. Just aim to give her a good time, ask her what she likes, etc. We were all virgins once.
Also, feel free to lick the kitty. Gals do like it. And they'll generally pay you back. And do NOT spank her unless she tells you. Trust me on this.
Yes, she knows I'm a virgin. I was definently trying to come up with "things" to involve in before actually having sex with her, to get her sort of heated so it wouldn't be a mediocre experiance for her. I've got to work on the communication part during the actual thing which hopefully I will figure out on my own.
Originally Posted by why
Damn I missed the first page. Really wanted to use the
Real suggestion: just let her get on top and fuck you.
Ha, trust me I'm definently going to let her do that
Originally Posted by unjung
My first time was also with a more experienced woman (well, 16 year old girl). It was very good. We were in luuuuuv, which also helped.
And I didn't get off the first three times.
...I wonder how she's doing today?
Unlikely. She's probably young and in love.