Originally Posted by MetroStyles
This actually happened to me once, but I lost interest because she was psycho. It was pretty tough getting rid of her. She acted weird around me in the office. But I don't think she ever blabbed because she wanted to maintain her rep. Also was never on a project team with her. If I was, I'd imagine it would be a very awkward day-to-day situation.
If anything, I'd clearly lay out the boundaries for the relationship off the bat. Friends first, hook up second. Not exclusive. Not serious. She will likely "agree" to this and still go psycho/possessive on you, but at least you can say you told her. Keep on bringing up how you are afraid of hurting her and all that crap because you are not looking for anything serious. If you keep on reinforcing this the (inevitable) aftermath will be less painful, though not painless.
Originally Posted by unjung
Maybe you should lay out some boundaries, as per Metro. You don't want her going schizo once you actually are in another relationship.
Yeah this is definitely something to consider. She's definitely a bit of a crazy type, which is also what makes her so much fun. Fuck. She just left too..