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post #121 of 176
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Originally Posted by Flambeur View Post
Yeah, technically that's all good. However she's a)insatiable b)a bit too young for me to be totally confident that she has the maturity to handle a sex only thing without getting attached.

But it's fine for now.

So you're admitting here that you are leading her on, and she thinks the two of you are bf/gf. Unless you tell her that you are not her bf and the relationship outside of work is purely physical, you are in for a shit-storm when she goes batshit crazy on you.

Shagging aside, what do you want in a mate? Are you ready to have a mate?
post #122 of 176
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Originally Posted by Flambeur View Post
Yeah, technically that's all good. However she's a)insatiable b)a bit too young for me to be totally confident that she has the maturity to handle a sex only thing without getting attached.

But it's fine for now.

hum, dude, sex only I don't think so, I mean she calls your her boyfriend, ok...
post #123 of 176
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Originally Posted by Dakota rube View Post
Hasn't that train already left the station?
From her viewpoint, at least?

ehhhh

possibly..

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Originally Posted by A.K.A. View Post
So you're admitting here that you are leading her on, and she thinks the two of you are bf/gf. Unless you tell her that you are not her bf and the relationship outside of work is purely physical, you are in for a shit-storm when she goes batshit crazy on you.

Shagging aside, what do you want in a mate? Are you ready to have a mate?

I don't really see how I'm leading her on?

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Originally Posted by clee1982 View Post
hum, dude, sex only I don't think so, I mean she calls your her boyfriend, ok...

She only did it a few times in a joking manner.. but who knows.
post #124 of 176
You guys don't openly tell girls you're not ready for a relationship?
post #125 of 176
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
You guys don't openly tell girls you're not ready for a relationship?

With all the sex, Flambeur's probably not had a chance to broach the subject.
post #126 of 176
Ride it for all it's worth. You're in deep now, so unless you have any inkling that she's "The One" (and the odds are against you on that) you need an A-1 exit strategy, stat. Once you have that planned, keep screwing her brains out.

Exit strategy?: Acting clingy, possessive and jealous always worked for me. It has to be her idea. How old are the two of you anyway? There may be a different plan based on that.
post #127 of 176
Bumping this thread and piggy-backing on it to say I slept with my second co-worker while under the influence... except this time coworkers saw the situation developing while out drinking on Friday. I am fucked. Will report if things get particularly interesting.
post #128 of 176
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Originally Posted by unjung View Post
Bumping this thread and piggy-backing on it to say I slept with my second co-worker while under the influence... except this time coworkers saw the situation developing while out drinking on Friday. I am fucked. Will report if things get particularly interesting.

You are a dirty, dirty tramp.
post #129 of 176
You have to assess if you have the ability to be there and as long as you keep that in your focus... you should feel that its easier to take it one day at a time
post #130 of 176
Flambeur - Update please? Am curious how this turned out.
post #131 of 176
Actually I officially need help. Today has mostly passed without drama and I have spoken a few times briefly with my colleague, but it's the elephant in the room. What do I tell her? What if she is actually interested in more? I was extremely intoxicated and don't have more than a summary of the afternoon/evening in my mind.
post #132 of 176
Fuck... she literally just emailed me asking how the rest of my night was (I ditched around 1 a.m.).
post #133 of 176
Well...maybe she's a nice girl. I'd run a few more trials before making a call.
post #134 of 176
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Originally Posted by SkinnyGoomba View Post
Well...maybe she's a nice girl. I'd run a few more trials before making a call.

She's about six years older than me... I'm just not interested.
post #135 of 176
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Originally Posted by SkinnyGoomba View Post
Well...maybe she's a nice girl. I'd run a few more trials before making a call.

I endorse this post ^
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