I am curious how Spoo-meister gets away with it, since it has been implied that he's a Charvet consumer - he must never wear anything but a white cotton pocket square when sporting the output of that little store on the Place Vendome . . .
Spoo has way toned down his approach over time. He is not seen sporting shiny ties that often. He has also toned down the accessories. I am not against shiny ties in general...I have some myself, including Charvet. Sometimes that is what a fit needs.
However, what I see often when I see your fits is just too much of a good thing. I am all about loud from time to time, but when you gild the Lilly to the point of excess, it cheapens the whole look and just makes you look somewhat anachronistic. It also is just somewhat overwhelming to look at. How about a muted tie, and standard spread shirt with barrel cuffs and let the suit do the talking? You have some nice stuff and I really think if you were more careful about choosing the individual elements, it would have a better overall result.