didn't we do this not long ago? Anyhow, I guess I have had 4.5 girlfriends in my life. 1. Aussie girl, together almost 4 yrs. Ended on good terms, it had run its course and was time to move on. We had a bit of a falling out for a short time, but are very friendly now. Chatted online yesterday actually. She's a sweetie. 2. Hong Kong girl, together 2 years. Love of my life. Still in love with her now. Completely unable to get along. Post breakup relationship was very rough for a long time. We are sort of cool again now, but any time we see each other, anything from marathon sex to WW3 could happen. Normally both. 3. VN girl 1, together 1.5 years, ended when "he destroyed my life". We're not friends. I bump into her here and there, and she just completely ignores me. It's really juvenile after 3 yrs. We don't need to be friends, but you'd think she could say 'hi' or something. She won't, so I take great delight in mocking her for it. 4. VN girl 2, together about 2 yrs, ended on very good terms, again, just run its course. We had lunch three weeks ago. She's awesome and doing very well for herself. Really happy for her. 4.5 US girl who moved back home. Together a bit under six months (which is why she is a pointfive). Weird situation. Broke up when she left, on good terms, she got home and turned insta-bitch. It really fucked with my head, since there was no reason for us to not be cordial. I got hammered one night and abused her on Skype. She had it coming. I woke up the next morning with a message saying that what I said hurt her like nothing else she'd ever heard, and to never contact her again. I now have one less Facebook friend...so I'll file that as a 'no' So what does that mean...good terms with 2, bad terms with 2, run hot and cold with the other...half half isn't bad, right?