Dump my girlfriend or try harder???? - Page 3

Originally Posted by sjg22

If you lived in NYC during your early-to-mid 20s, you shouldn't have had to rely on a steady relationship to clean out your pipes. I lived there when I was 23 - if you have any game in that city, you should be getting some.

Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago.

I'm not against long-term relationships (I'm sort of in one, if you call 8 months long) - but my quality of life is great in this relationship because the girl is really chill, there's no drama and if that changes, I'll end it. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.

Originally Posted by APK

See how you answered your own question? And so quickly.

Originally Posted by JohnGalt

You saying that she has no drive or ambition indicates that you have drive and ambition. As such, staying with her will always hold you back. You will always be wondering "what could have been" and will eventually harbor resentment. Further, the lack of communication will just compound problems. The relationship is doomed to fail - break it off.

Originally Posted by sjg22

This is terrible advice. Change the "under 30" to "over 40" and you may have a case... But come on - you shouldn't have to settle at 28. This advice is why there are so many guys that are incredibly p-whipped out there; because they've been told to put up with girls' b.s. because there supposedly aren't other alternatives. Again, terrible, terrible advice.

If you and your gf are fighting constantly and you've been dating for less than 2 years, than sorry, it won't work. You think commitment + pets + kids will make things better? Never works out this way. Get out while you can and meet a girl whose company you truly enjoy.

Originally Posted by sjg22

If you lived in NYC during your early-to-mid 20s, you shouldn't have had to rely on a steady relationship to clean out your pipes. I lived there when I was 23 - if you have any game in that city, you should be getting some.

Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago.

I'm not against long-term relationships (I'm sort of in one, if you call 8 months long) - but my quality of life is great in this relationship because the girl is really chill, there's no drama and if that changes, I'll end it. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

Break up with her. If you aren't 90% sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her, dumping her sooner rather than later is best for both of you. Don't be such a pussy.

Originally Posted by thekunk07

what does being broke have to do with it? 99% of women are annoying cunts, so why trade eric davis for darryl strawberry? same player.

Originally Posted by thekunk07

^no, i cheated on all of them but it's important to have a steady so you don;t touch people on the subway or have to resort to roofies.

Originally Posted by edmorel

I learned that the hard way.

Originally Posted by sjg22

Is this what us guys have become? Prisoners of women we don't like purely because we think this is our only way to get laid? I mean, I've been there, but I've learned from my error a long time ago. Don't waste your life being unhappy fellas.

Originally Posted by rach2jlc

For a forum where nearly half of you voted that gheyz were bad, you straights sure have some fucked up, infantile relationships.

The reason we giggle so much is because we're laughing AT you guys, not with you.

Originally Posted by rach2jlc

I just assumed it became rather tiring carrying a four pound can of Pasta Sauce with you in your Cuccinelli purse.

Originally Posted by Mr. White

Marry her and cheat.

Originally Posted by big_kev

Man, the list of problems goes on and on

Originally Posted by sjg22

This advice is why there are so many guys that are incredibly p-whipped out there; because they've been told to put up with girls' b.s. because there supposedly aren't other alternatives.