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post #16 of 46
12/28/09 at 3:17pm
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Originally Posted by Caboose View Post
no idea if this is the right area of the forums but i need advice and yes its a soppy (highschool) relationship thing, i know i don't like reading them either my gf broke up with me about 2 months ago i was pretty broken up about it but im getting over it now, doesn't hurt as much anymore. anyway she has started or is about to start dating my best friend, and he has said he will go out with her previously telling me he wouldn't do such a thing. so much for the bros before hoes thing. is it just me or does your ex breaking up with you then dating your best friend seem wrong? am i justified in being pissed at the both of them or am i missing something here? so style forum what do i do here, i only see a few options 1. ignore the both of them and stop talking to them, letting them go have their fun 2. stay friends and hide my anger, and giving them my blessing or 3. and i forgot what my third option was so learned members of style forum, what do i do?
People at your age are free and should be free to explore relationships with different people. Would you prefer this girl stay with you when she'd rather be with someone else? In a few years all of you will be off to colleges and/or going your separate ways, and none of this bullshit will matter. And for all you know this girl may move on to another conquest within a few months. What she did with you, she's likely to do with your friend. If your best friend is rubbing your nose in this, he's not your friend and option #1 is your only choice. But if he's not, and if you value your friendship with him, I'd definitely opt for the second choice and see what happens.
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post #17 of 46
12/28/09 at 3:27pm
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Originally Posted by edmorel View Post
well, yeah, but this is a general answer to pretty much any problem one can face.




BTW, were me and my friends the only ones that regularly shared girls? I don't mean threesomes and stuff but after one guy broke up/was done with one chick, she typically ended up with another dude in the group. It's not like you should be looking to get married in high school and there is not much you can do about a girl that wants to be generous with her cooch. High school girls are like joints, take a puff and pass her on.


Me and my best friend did this. I think it probably hurt his feelings a little at the time but he manned up got over it and we are still best friends to this day.
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post #18 of 46
12/28/09 at 3:40pm
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Originally Posted by edmorel View Post
well, yeah, but this is a general answer to pretty much any problem one can face.




BTW, were me and my friends the only ones that regularly shared girls? I don't mean threesomes and stuff but after one guy broke up/was done with one chick, she typically ended up with another dude in the group. It's not like you should be looking to get married in high school and there is not much you can do about a girl that wants to be generous with her cooch. High school girls are like joints, take a puff and pass her on.

+1.

classic ed-ism, but has much truth.

And if he's your best bro, why not let him have some cooch?
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post #19 of 46
12/28/09 at 3:41pm
3. Get with her best friend.
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post #20 of 46
12/28/09 at 4:16pm
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Originally Posted by Threak View Post
3. Get with her best friend.

Simple. Elegant. Perfect.

This is the best advice you can get.

I'll add a bit more. . . once you are pounding her best friend regularly, ask your ex if she'd like to have a threesome. You never know.
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post #21 of 46
12/28/09 at 4:16pm
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
Is she fat now? Post funny pics

Haha. No, nothing like that. She was just a sociopath, and I haven't seen anything that makes it look like she's changed. I have a personal policy that I don't begrudge people things they did before they were around 20. Most people are just kids up until that point, and they don't start to grow out of it until they get into their 20s. This girl is the only real exception to that rule for me. She was insane, so insane that I can't see how she could have changed without some serious help.

Also, I laugh at her because she was the source of so much drama in my life, and it's funny to me that such things ever actually mattered to me.
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post #22 of 46
12/28/09 at 4:21pm
Only one solution really. Sleep with your best friend's sister, record it, and post it on the internet. If he doesn't have a sister, move on to his mom (she should still be fairly young).
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post #23 of 46
12/28/09 at 9:38pm
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Originally Posted by trader View Post
Only one solution really. Sleep with your best friend's sister, record it, and post it on the internet. If he doesn't have a sister, move on to his mom (she should still be fairly young).

1.)Just do her Mom and his Mom
2.)take pics
3.)post said pics
4.)????
5.)Profit
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post #24 of 46
12/28/09 at 10:08pm
How long were you guys dating? If this was like 3 weeks you're blowing this out of proportion. If it was like a year (even in high school), your friend is not your friend. Even if he doesn't think it's a big deal he knows you do. It's not a big deal to date a friend's ex but not if the two parties were that serious...unless you think you're going to marry the girl, just find a girl who your friend isn't still broken up about.
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post #25 of 46
12/28/09 at 10:12pm
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Originally Posted by edmorel View Post
well, yeah, but this is a general answer to pretty much any problem one can face. BTW, were me and my friends the only ones that regularly shared girls? I don't mean threesomes and stuff but after one guy broke up/was done with one chick, she typically ended up with another dude in the group. It's not like you should be looking to get married in high school and there is not much you can do about a girl that wants to be generous with her cooch. High school girls are like joints, take a puff and pass her on.
No, you're not the only one. I don't get all the male territorial bullshit. In the words of the great English philosopher Mick Jagger "Girls come and go, they just like streetcars." OP needs to move on. Psychic energy wasted on pining for someone that doesn't deserve you is such an effing waste. One of the women I'm currently dating is my best friend's ex. That said, I cleared everything with him beforehand. He's even given me a few tips on her likes and dislikes. Creepy? Perhaps. But very helpful.
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post #26 of 46
12/28/09 at 11:41pm
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Originally Posted by randallr View Post
Poke holes in your best friends condoms.

I actually know of someone who ended up getting pregnant from that.
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post #27 of 46
12/29/09 at 12:23am
Thread Starter 
thanks for the ideas, i was dating her for just over a year so it was pretty serious.
lol i think ill just follow that advice posted by someone or other and sleep with her mum, total milf.
just 1 year of school left so i can deal with it till im out of there
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post #28 of 46
12/29/09 at 12:32am
Ignore them both and move on with your life. Know that she's going to get fat and pregnant in a few years and your "friend" will be working the late shift at the local NAPA.
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post #29 of 46
12/29/09 at 2:35am
I agree with all posts that have effectively been forget it and move on. It's only high school and you're unlikely to have or to want to ever talk to these people again in a year. If the guy drills you on it, let him know he broke a pretty major rule, but I'd leave it at that.

Don't go around poking holes in condoms. That would be a significant over-reaction.
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post #30 of 46
12/29/09 at 3:28am
you don't have to talk or see them if you don't want to. just be civil if you do see them.
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