Originally Posted by shellshock
exactly. it's simply not an excuse. do people get so drunk they forget they have a boyfriend/girlfriend?? no thanks. that's when people are supposed to use proper judgement and say to themselves "well i better not drink too much or i might be tempted to do something stupid..." meh.
I agree completely. That was something that I really hassled her about.
In this situation, I just accept that it was a stupid mistake, and sometimes I make stupid mistakes even when I know what the outcome will be, regardless of whether alcohol is involved.