Thanks all for your opinions. I have something with belts and shoes, they need to be big and heavy. Wearing a belt of at least 2 inches a wide is a must for me, and it is difficult to find the appropriate pants or jeans sometimes. The belt is one of the most important parts of my outfit for me.
I am a tall person, and yes my upper body isn't too big comparing to my hips, which makes it difficult in general to find appropriate clothing. Untucking a shirt makes me look even taller, and I don't like the idea of hiding my belt.
Another style I like to wear is the more military style, khaki or BDU pants with some matching military style shirt, but something that is still accepted.
I attached a picture of me with my BDU with police belt. Please let me know how this looks to you and if it looks OK to wear this, or if I should change it.
I am very glad that I found this forum to talk openly about clothing styles.
I appreciate all your opinions, and don't be afraid that you'll offend me or so if you don't like the style.