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Parents only: what do you dress your kids in?

porcelain monkey

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Originally Posted by voxsartoria
This topic has a special place in my heart (the non-blackened parts.)

My son is five, and thus far, his clothes have come from Miniman, Petit Bateau, Tea, Marie Chantal, Oilily, and Bonpoint. I also get basics from Mini Boden and Gap Kids. All his shoes come from Vincent.

Unfortunately, both the Oilily and Bonpoint stores closed in Boston.

How do I know this? I buy all his clothes. I really enjoy it.

His cousin (my wife's identical twin sister's son, so they might as well be brothers) is a year younger, and he wears all of my son's old clothes that aren't destroyed in wear. So, they all get used at least twice. My wife loves doing photo albums, and she does one devoted to the two kids every year. It's just very charming to see how the clothes go from one to the other as the year goes by.

Unfortunately, this means the my son is known as the best dressed child at school. But, it is the special role of parents to inflict cruelties on their children. This past fall, I usually picked him up, and we would play for about half an hour in the climbing structures and slides. It is quite a sight to see him running around in his Frenchy kids clothes and me flying out of the tube slides in my bespoke suits, Vass double soles first.

Sometimes? I'm on the monkey bars in Steed.


- B


My boys (7 and 3) wear a lot of the same clothes as above, but for the opposite reason - we have some very well dressed little friends and relatives (both with mothers who are quite addicted to shopping at high end boutiques). Literally hundreds of items have been passed on to us, some with the tags still attached. My wife and I sort through it all, pick out the best (some if it is quite trendy and looks dated after a year or so) and donate the rest to charity. I do not joke - much of this stuff would make the SW&D crowd drool. We then supplement with our own picks from the occasional high end store such as Oilily and Bonpoint or staples (mainly jeans and cords, socks and underwear) from Gap, Crew Cuts or Mini Boden. I have found that just like adult clothes, certain brands fit a certain body type much better than others. In our case tall and thin.

My oldest used to wear a jacket and tie to pre-school (on hie own!), but alas generally wants to wear jeans and sweat shirts these days. We just make sure he has good jeans and sweat shirts. He still dresses up for for holidays, parties, and church. He generally wears a blue blazer (BB with LP fabric), shirt and tie with suede slip ons. His ties are vintage and very slim. One was my uncle's school tie - must be late 50's - and one was the tie my father was married in (1967). These ties fit a kid better than most current youth ties. The other day he got dressed and put a paper napkin in his jacket pocket because he had seen one in mine. I told him I would get him a real pocket square and he was very excited. Needless to say, I was quite proud.
 

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Vox, when are you hooking Jr. up with bespoke stuff?
 

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Mini Boden, Carter, tea, Polo, Raf Simons, Bonpoint, Small Paul, Kiton, Gap, Alpha Industries
 

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Originally Posted by voxsartoria
Actually, I think that I mention it quite often, usually to explain why I wear things that many people here would consider ancient.

In this case, it was to underscore not only that my son was wearing stuff that I wore as a child, but also that this stuff waited 42 years before being worn again...which is not something I hear about a lot within families on this forvm.


- B


That's cause we is poor. Our ish ain't worth putting away 42 years for future generations!
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I can understand you handing down stuff you've purchased yourself (those blazer buttons come to mind)... But your own mother had the foresight to put those clothes away so her grandson could wear them one day? That's some next-level thriftyness + nostalgia!
 

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Originally Posted by pocketsquareguy
I had so much fun dressing up my little guy. Then at about 10-11 he didn't want that help any more and began to dress in a progressively worse way. Now at 23, I sometimes see moments of style emerging, but I'm still waiting for him to blossom.

mt_spiffy I am your father

Originally Posted by voxsartoria
Actually, I think that I mention my great grandfather quite often

- B


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mr monty

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Originally Posted by lee_44106
These higher end stuff that you put your kids in, do you find they last?

Yes, they last for years. If you are a smart shopper. One can buy high end children's clothing cheaper than clothing from Pennys, Sears, etc.
 

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Originally Posted by gdl203
Mini Boden, Carter, tea, Polo, Raf Simons, Bonpoint, Small Paul, Kiton, Gap, Alpha Industries

Kiton for Kidz!
 

zalb916

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Originally Posted by Wes Bourne
But your own mother had the foresight to put those clothes away so her grandson could wear them one day?
My mother has a cedar closet full of my siblings' and my European baby clothes that she intended to give to us. My brother passed on them for his boy, but I'm looking forward to taking them for my children. I doubt they will be over 40 years old, but they will be over 30.
 

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Some of my or my sibs hand me downs (back when Marshall Fields sold good stuff). New, Gymboree for the really little ones, various as they get older. For boys dress up, all Hickey Freeman- (the only kid's line I've found that actually fits). Girls- various. There's a good girls dressmaker in the suburbs here and we've gotten a few things. (with three girls I can amortize the cost quite handily)
 

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For everyday/school -- Gap, RL, Boden, Hanna Anderson

For good -- RL, Best & Co. (RIP...), Hanna Anderson, Peter Millar
 

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I have no idea, my wife buys all of his clothes. I've seen labels from RL, Janie and Jack, Gap, etc. He is typically the best dressed among his (diaper sporting) peers. Oddly, he is extremely interested in clothes, especially business clothes. I hope that's an indication that this will be a mutual hobby of ours in the future. Here are a couple of his fit pics. He's about 2.5 yrs old.

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Originally Posted by yachtie
(with three girls I can amortize the cost quite handily)

No doubt.

My wife handles dressing our three girls. We have a stack of boxes in our basement you wouldn't believe, organized by size and season. She buys a great deal of her stuff from thrift and, particularly, consignment. She has a spectacular eye for putting together the look she wants. And you can find dresses and such in perfect condition since they are worn once or twice (Easter, maybe) then the kid outgrows them. Alas, I have no sons, to inflict my taste upon.

My middle daughter, complaining that she was outgrowing her shoes, told her mother that she needed to go to the basement and get her a new pair.

This is pretty typical of how the girls dress (obviously not play clothes):

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