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Should you invite your work colleagues and boss(es) to your wedding?

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12/3/09 at 9:37am
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12/3/09 at 9:37am
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post #3 of 20
12/3/09 at 9:43am
Depends on the relationship you have with them. I don't see a problem with it.
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post #4 of 20
12/3/09 at 10:33am
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Originally Posted by Bhowie View Post
Depends on the relationship you have with them. I don't see a problem with it.

+1 My wife was very close to the boss she had when we got married. It was her first job, and he was sort of a mentor for her. They've actually maintained contact even a few years after she left the company. I believe we invited him (though I don't think he came), but I'm pretty sure he was the only one.
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post #5 of 20
12/3/09 at 2:15pm
Yeah, it all depends on the relationship. I got married two months after starting a new job, so I did not invite my boss/co-workers. I did invite a few from my previous job though, since we had worked together for years and become good friends outside the office as well.
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post #6 of 20
12/3/09 at 3:22pm
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Should you invite your work colleagues and boss(es) to your wedding?

Are you friends with them? Yes? Then go ahead. No? Then, no.
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post #7 of 20
12/3/09 at 3:30pm
Impossible to answer the question as asked. As others said, it depends on how closely/long you've been working with them, whether you've ever met up outside of work, etc...

I would think that for most people, the answer is "some of them".
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post #8 of 20
12/3/09 at 3:37pm
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Impossible to answer the question as asked. As others said, it depends on how closely/long you've been working with them, whether you've ever met up outside of work, etc...

I would think that for most people, the answer is "some of them".

Wether they've met your future spouse might also help answer that question.
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post #9 of 20
12/3/09 at 4:25pm
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Should you invite your work colleagues and boss(es) to your wedding?
If you must to absolutement be marriage, best is do not to speak this thing to any of your colleague, make the marriage, and speak this only to humans resources personnel! Do not to wear stupid engagement or wedding ring! Make introduce your wife to current colleagues only at event such as Christmas party where everyone will be so much betrunken and no one will to remember nothing after!
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post #10 of 20
12/3/09 at 4:55pm
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If you must to absolutement be marriage, best is do not to speak this thing to any of your colleague, make the marriage, and speak this only to humans resources personnel! Do not to wear stupid engagement or wedding ring!
Make introduce your wife to current colleagues only at event such as Christmas party where everyone will be so much betrunken and no one will to remember nothing after!

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post #11 of 20
12/3/09 at 6:54pm
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Wether they've met your future spouse might also help answer that question.

Too good not to quote...
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post #12 of 20
12/3/09 at 6:57pm
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Too good not to quote...

I'm curious how you interpreted what I said...
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post #13 of 20
12/4/09 at 11:24am
I wouldn't do it out of some sense of obligation, that's for sure. Unless they're also a close friend(s) I'd skip it altogether.
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post #14 of 20
12/4/09 at 8:27pm
Why wouldn't you? Chances are if they aren't close they will just politely decline. Let the onus be on them not you so you can enjoy your damn wedding.
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post #15 of 20
12/5/09 at 3:26am
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I wouldn't do it out of some sense of obligation, that's for sure. Unless they're also a close friend(s) I'd skip it altogether.
Same here.
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