KPO, are you fucking kidding me? A slut? This isn't DT, so pardon me if you were being sarcastic. But yeah... GTFOOH with that, do you enjoy sex? And it is a good thing because you are a straight male? Sex is good and anyone who says anything to the contrary isn't getting any ("Fuck you, I got mine"). Anyway, to the OP, women enjoy foreplay. If all you think of regarding sex is penetration, then no way in hell will you please her. The fact that you are intimidated is not a good sign either, if you go into something thinking you are going to fail, there is a good chance you will. +1 to the condom. Edit: Damn, oversexed, underfucked is right.