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post #1 of 19
10/29/09 at 12:51pm
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So you know how guys often call each other by their last names/surnames--at least it happens to me. (I think this is an interesting discussion topic in and of itself, but I digress.) I've noticed, however, that women never call me by my last name. Never, that is, until this I meet this great girl (we instantly click, have a lot in common, she's hot, etc) and now she's started referring to me by last name only. It's kind of irritating--I think it makes her less feminine to me which is the opposite of what I want...
Do you think there's anything to this? Is she relegating me to that awful hell of "friendzone"?
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post #2 of 19
10/29/09 at 8:58pm
With most of the guys I hang out with its last name. Mostly due to our profession. I had a buddy of mine who went by his middle name which was the same as my first name. Our last names were very similiar as well. We'd go by "Big ____" and "Lil _____" due to me being 5'11" and him being about 5'5"
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post #3 of 19
10/29/09 at 9:50pm
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Originally Posted by Usingmyrights View Post
With most of the guys I hang out with its last name. Mostly due to our profession. I had a buddy of mine who went by his size which was the same as Conne's. We'd go by "Big ____" and "Lil ____" due to me being 12" and him being about 3"

FTFY
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post #4 of 19
10/29/09 at 10:05pm

You're okay. Start worrying when she starts to call you by her last boyfriend's last name.

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post #5 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:14pm
She is just doing it to fuck with you. Find a way to annoy her equally. She likes you though, or else she wouldn't have bothered. Unless of course she also does it to other guys... then she's just a filthy whore.
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post #6 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:23pm
It'd annoy me a little. Are you just her buddy, or fuck buddy... I call the former by their last names, the latter, well, whatever I want.
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post #7 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:31pm
Jesus fucking christ it's a wonder how anybody on this site gets laid.
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post #8 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:33pm
I know a married couple with wife calling her husband by his last name all the time. WTF?
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post #9 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:33pm
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
Jesus fucking christ it's a wonder how anybody on this site gets laid.

No kidding, wilkie.

Me - I'm down to a single letter around family. I don't even merit "homas"
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post #10 of 19
10/29/09 at 11:47pm
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Originally Posted by Thomas View Post
No kidding, wilkie.

Me - I'm down to a single letter around family. I don't even merit "homas"

Ughhhhh don't call me wilkie.
My name is Kyle!
I feel like this is ruining our friendship. Like you calling me wilkie makes us buds instead of.... well... you know. My suitors never call me wilkie.

I'm sorry. I know we have a long and storied history together, but this is something I cannot forgive.
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post #11 of 19
10/30/09 at 7:21am
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Ughhhhh don't call me wilkie.
My name is Kyle!
I feel like this is ruining our friendship. Like you calling me wilkie makes us buds instead of.... well... you know. My suitors never call me wilkie.

I'm sorry. I know we have a long and storied history together, but this is something I cannot forgive.

Your SUITORS? You have suitors other than me?? I thought I meant something to you, but if you're subjecting my dumb to market forces, shopping my warez around, then well... ughhh.
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post #12 of 19
10/30/09 at 10:52am
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
Jesus fucking christ it's a wonder how anybody on this site gets laid.


Spot-on. BTW, my GF uses yours' "Fag Forum" line now.
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post #13 of 19
10/30/09 at 2:56pm
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Originally Posted by kwilkinson View Post
Jesus fucking christ it's a wonder how anybody on this site gets laid.
What are you talking about? Everyone here is a stud who would turn down Jennifer Aniston and Katy Perry. That's what their posts tell me anyways.
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post #14 of 19
10/30/09 at 3:08pm
Thankfully I have an odd last name which prevents friends from using it. However my first name has developed well over 30 nick names...some are pretty ridiculous.
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post #15 of 19
10/30/09 at 5:57pm
Easy way to fix this. Jokingly call her by her last name, then she'll stop. The 'friendzone' problem is another matter.
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