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So I've realized that either I live in a soap opera, or I am crazy...

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Originally Posted by kwilkinson
I'm glad my life is thoroughly boring. No drama. Lots of boringness.

sometimes drama is fun, but ask me again when I die at 36 from alcohol, drugs, and STDs..
 

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If you can't tell your friends any of your secrets, just make up a few new ones and tell them those secrets instead.
 

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Originally Posted by Mountains
If you can't tell your friends any of your secrets, just make up a few new ones and tell them those secrets instead.

hmmmm.... not bad.. not bad at all...
 

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Originally Posted by Flambeur
That doesn't sound too bad, DH...

But seriously, I just realized today that I can't really trust most of my (even the most true) friends with any secrets because everyone is tied in with someone else, everyone gossips, and everyone has their own agenda. And there are good reasons for all of that because even in our small circle there are all kinds of crazy things going on, from extramarital affairs and love quadrangles (love triangles are for pussies) to cash payoffs, drugs (probably the least of anyone's problems) and other misc. destructive happenings...

Sometimes I just think: this is not going to end well.



...your friends sound exactly like my friends, scary.
 

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Originally Posted by Flambeur
sometimes drama is fun, but ask me again when I die at 36 from alcohol, drugs, and STDs..

eh, being an old, wrinkly corpse is overrated. So is being a pristine youngun.

Originally Posted by Mountains
If you can't tell your friends any of your secrets, just make up a few new ones and tell them those secrets instead.

This.is.brilliant.
 

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But seriously, I just realized today that I can't really trust most of my (even the most true) friends with any secrets because everyone is tied in with someone else, everyone gossips, and everyone has their own agenda. And there are good reasons for all of that because even in our small circle there are all kinds of crazy things going on, from extramarital affairs and love quadrangles (love triangles are for pussies) to cash payoffs, drugs (probably the least of anyone's problems) and other misc. destructive happenings...
If I were you I'd be in the market for a new inner circle. Revel in your situation or change it.
 

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Originally Posted by thenanyu
Just sounds like your friends are bored.

Honestly, I do love my friends and my crazy social life, but I realize the limitations.

I still think I'm pretty damn lucky overall. Just have to be cautious and discreet in some situations. I also always get involved with girls who are connected to the small circle somehow and it gets to be a mess sometimes.
 

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Originally Posted by Flambeur
Honestly, I do love my friends and my crazy social life, but I realize the limitations. I still think I'm pretty damn lucky overall. Just have to be cautious and discreet in some situations. I also always get involved with girls who are connected to the small circle somehow and it gets to be a mess sometimes.
It would seem that the solution to all your problems lies in dating outside your circle. It can't be that hard, can it?
 

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Originally Posted by Rambo
It would seem that the solution to all your problems lies in dating outside your circle. It can't be that hard, can it?

I have some of those too since I am only limited to messing around with just one circle girl at the time.
 

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Best Soap Opera ever:

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Originally Posted by Fuuma
You're a drama queen. Try some of these teen mags questionnaires to confirm.

Seventeen or Teen Vogue?
 

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