That doesn't sound too bad, DH... But seriously, I just realized today that I can't really trust most of my (even the most true) friends with any secrets because everyone is tied in with someone else, everyone gossips, and everyone has their own agenda. And there are good reasons for all of that because even in our small circle there are all kinds of crazy things going on, from extramarital affairs and love quadrangles (love triangles are for pussies) to cash payoffs, drugs (probably the least of anyone's problems) and other misc. destructive happenings... Sometimes I just think: this is not going to end well.