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Is the pool as small as it seems to me to be? There are few women who interest me and they all seem to be involved when I ask them out or inquire with others, etc. Is this as common as I find it, or, I wonder if the available percentage is skewed down because of the type of woman who interests me? (the W only necessary for the acronym)
post #2 of 64
I know tons. Maybe you're too picky.
post #3 of 64
Actually the pool is fucking huge, especially as it gets to the 30s. There are tons of available hot smart women in that range. So yes, it's you.
post #4 of 64
Hunts, you're probably too much of a gentleman for your own good.
post #5 of 64
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Actually the pool is fucking huge, especially as it gets to the 30s. There are tons of available hot smart women in that range.

So yes, it's you.

You're in ny though. Makes a big difference.
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You're in ny though. Makes a big difference.

This has nothing to do with NY. I think this is the same in any normal US city.
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This has nothing to do with NY. I think this is the same in any normal US city.

No one bothers not being single in NY, what's the point?
post #8 of 64
Why don't you just do online dating? It's the most rational, significant achievement in relationships since the invention of deodorant. Unless you're a high-rolling player, it's beyond me why anyone would think they'll find the perfect match just by moping around the city looking for strangers.

Single White Females? You've got to narrow down your field of acceptable races. I refuse to date any catholics, anyone with black hair or eyes, scots, irish, (or any other celt), any persons from "the continent" including germans, and last but not least- slavs. ....this is sarcasm, of course, for the OP's edification.
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This has nothing to do with NY. I think this is the same in any normal US city.

True in the cities in the NE and West Coast. People here 'stay younger longer' - ie. put off making the settling-down decision until they're in their mid-thirties.

Also true in the mid-west and south, where everyone's married by 24 - and divorced again by thirty.
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Why don't you just do online dating? It's the most rational, significant achievement in relationships since the invention of deodorant. Unless you're a high-rolling player, it's beyond me why anyone would think they'll find the perfect match just by moping around the city looking for strangers.

Single White Females? You've got to narrow down your field of acceptable races. I refuse to date any catholics, anyone with black hair or eyes, scots, irish, (or any other celt), any persons from "the continent" including germans, and last but not least- slavs. ....this is sarcasm, of course, for the OP's edification.

I'm old fashioned, I sorta like meeting people not planning this shit w. search criterias then chatting online for a week to see if they fit my "profile". Lots of people are like that, mostly those that get laid.
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Hunts, you're probably too much of a gentleman for your own good.
Thanks. I try, but I also acknowledge that you are probably correct. I don't know if this is something I can fix -- I can't gut myself and then use my own entrails as bait.
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You're in ny though. Makes a big difference.
Yeah, NYC is like a target-rich environment. I'm in the sticks. I also both work full-time and am a 1L. So there's work -- eh, really really really don't want to have drama at work, where I plan to stay a long long time (plus it's pretty small, and again, the pool of women in my age group are 90%+ wearing rings). I did ask one girl at work out though (just had to, regardless of risk, which was huge, because of her profile there). But she said she was seeing someone (which I found out to be true). Then there's class -- the age distribution in class is mostly in my target range, probably thirty women total in my class, with <10 not wearing rings and in many cases, with kids or multiple kids (talk about making you feel old). Of those, only one really interested me at all (in fact, she's the one that most interested me out of the whole class anyway) -- she's in a six-year relationship. Crap. Considering I have limited free time (I commute 4h/day to class and back), finding someone in the same law school boat who I would be in class with multiple days/wk would be convenient. The College is in a major city, but I don't even know what to do there after class at like 10pm when I'm barely awake and headed out on the commute home. Have gone out with some of my classmates, and I tell you, getting home at two and going to work in the morning is rough. Pickiness: Yeah well. There is a very particular something that I need, and I can always tell the women who have it after a little interaction. I've tried with women who didn't have it, but were interesting for other reasons -- doesn't work for me. Like going to work for the money and needing stuff on the side to make you happy. Dunno.
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Considering I have limited free time (I commute 4h/day to class and back), finding someone in the same law school boat who I would be in class with multiple days/wk would be convenient.
ime, this isn't as good of an idea as you think it is.
post #13 of 64
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Is the pool as small as it seems to me to be? There are few women who interest me and they all seem to be involved when I ask them out or inquire with others, etc. Is this as common as I find it, or, I wonder if the available percentage is skewed down because of the type of woman who interests me?

(the W only necessary for the acronym)
This. Are you sure they're not lying to your face about that as a way to soft reject your AZZ?
post #14 of 64
Also you need to stop being so picky, drop the "S".
post #15 of 64
Hold on, mate. You work a full-time job (I'm going to assume 40 hours a week), are a 1L in law school, and commute for four hours each day? Where would you fit in time to maintain a relationship with a woman? Why would a woman want to get into a relationship with you if you can't spend a lot of time with her? If you're that busy, you should just do you. Work, sleep, eat, commute, study, and try to get some when you can.
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