i haven't read the above article, but i agree with what you guys are saying. however, let's be aware that there is a difference between good grooming habits and all out vanity. i shower everyday, am picky about clothes and haircuts, and so forth, like most men on this forum. but lately i've noticed a lot of straight guys who pluck their eye brows, color their hair, etc.. i think this goes beyond what one might call "dandyism." i don't know if there's a word for it, but maybe that's what the article referred to. am i wrong?