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post #121 of 132
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Originally Posted by fwiffo View Post
My office is officially business casual every single day, no casual day. I wear a suit and no tie. On days I meet VIPs or do presentations, I wear a tie. I used to do suit & tie every single day. But I'm new.

A senior executive, frankly, has more capital to spend. If he dresses slovenly, it's his perogative. Being in middle management, I have to get up and conduct all the presentations, stand at the front of the door to greet people for my meetings, meet vendors, etc. Dressing well helps with the presentation technique. 9 out of 10 times if someone new to your office is lost or needs something, they'll go to the best dressed person. If you want to hide from contact and clock in 9-5, then dressing like the masses helps.

I just started at a new office. Bringing my suit + no tie or suit + tie but jacket off has already made a lot of people in my group step up their dress and take their jobs more seriously.

Vis-a-vis a three piece, I work in a support department in insurance and at my old job carried it off once a month excluding summers. I got a few comments at first but no one paid attention at the end. I see people wear suit & tie for customers and since the people who work in the company are my internal clients, I'm dressing as part of my service to them. I learnt that from a contractor in London who would corral network cables in a suit and tie because to him anyone who pays him is his customer and that's the image he presents to the customer.



Someone else posted this in another thread and I remember the comment was how this was a great social experiment.


I wear a suit and tie every day, which is how most of the folks four levels over my head dress. I would have no issues with wearing a three piece, and I have never seen anybody at my company wear one. Most of the people at my level wear a dress shirt, trousers and sometimes ties. I get a lot of compliments, and I can tell people even over my head treat me with a certain positive respect. I have never preceived any negativity from anybody because of "over" dressing. I think it all comes down to how you hold yourself and your work performance. If you act like a dick, people are going to call you "that dick in a suit", if you suck at your job people will label you an "all show, no go", however like FDR said, "Speak softly, but carry a big stick."
post #122 of 132
Wearing a 3 piece charcoal suit as I type.

Spent the morning in two meetings...

Closed one deal I've been working on for a little better then a month ... And built a great relationship with a new potential client!

If you look great in a 3 piece suit, who the hell cares!
post #123 of 132
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Wearing a 3 piece charcoal suit as I type. Spent the morning in two meetings... Closed one deal I've been working on for a little better then a month ... And built a great relationship with a new potential client! If you look great in a 3 piece suit, who the hell cares!
Bravo. I had the same day yesterday. Solid charcoal three piece suit, three very positive business meetings. There is a balance between being professional, stylish, but not to over the top. Everyone has to find their own equilibrium between that and what makes you feel confident and not self conscious. Everyone on this forum cares. But don't confuse everyone in your day to day work life with people from this forum and their insane list of personal rules. The overwhelming majority of people you come across are not spending all day thinking about how you "wore a three piece suit while everyone else wore a two piece suit and what an abomination that is".
post #124 of 132
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Originally Posted by godofcoffee View Post
3 piece suits are pretty uncommon among the classic suitwearing professions (finance and law come to mind). As has been said above, I doubt that anyone except for senior people could pull it off. Even then, it'd be a hey-that's-weird-but-whatever kind of thing.


I have a couple three pieces and wear the vests a handful of times in the winter. I don't think anyone was surprised, and only a handful of folks even remarked about it. Whether or not it's "weird" depends on whether it fits with the style of the person wearing it.
post #125 of 132
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Originally Posted by xpress View Post
Wearing a 3 piece charcoal suit as I type.

Spent the morning in two meetings...

Closed one deal I've been working on for a little better then a month ... And built a great relationship with a new potential client!

If you look great in a 3 piece suit, who the hell cares!

I also love the 3 piece charcoal suit very much...
post #126 of 132
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Originally Posted by TC (Houston) View Post
I have a couple three pieces and wear the vests a handful of times in the winter. I don't think anyone was surprised, and only a handful of folks even remarked about it. Whether or not it's "weird" depends on whether it fits with the style of the person wearing it.
I also have a couple that I wear on very frigid days, but I have a couple of colleagues who wear them also; thus, I'm not the only one in my work environment.
post #127 of 132
You do catch some heat at first for wearing the vest, but after a couple of wears, people just shut up and start respecting. Also, I think the jacket lining needs to match the back of the vest lining. However, I think it is ok to go with a bright/contrasting lining for the back of the vest.
post #128 of 132
I am quite surprised nobody came up with a simple climatic consideration. A 3-piece suit adds an extra layer to one's outfit. Temperatures, in present-day offices, generally range between warm and tropical. This explains 3-pieces suits going out of fashion: they're way too warm to be worn in a 21°C (70°F) environment. On the other hand, they were fashionable up to the 60's, when old, underheated buildings were the norm. Which explains, pretty much, why and when I do wear them: when I'm expecting to be cold. This encompasses parties and social occasions where a lot of going in and out of the building is expected, and work occasions in which I know I am likely to be cold. In the latter occasions I often substitute for the 3-piece suit with a 2-piece with a knit (generally cashmere) waistcoat worn under it. Where I am (Milan), I know many attorneys wear 3-pieces to court, as the courthouse is an old building, notorious for its underheating and its hideous draughts. For similar reasons, many professors and civil servants wear some kind of cardigan/sweater between the shirt and the jacket. (Underheating is common to many public buildings in Italy). For reference, here is a Boggi advertisement: (Boggi is Milan's unquestioned leader in mid-range businesswear)
post #129 of 132
I think it's all a question of confidence - If you feel good and it makes you feel confident then you'll perform better.
post #130 of 132

I work in the City of London working as a consultant for a insurance brokerage firm and I wore my new 3 piece suit to a meeting a couple of weeks ago.The response I got from people attending was overwhelmingly positive..One of the senior partners said that it's good to see the younger generation dressing so stylishly..So there you are..in London a 3 piece is always appropriate for a business. .meeting

post #131 of 132
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Originally Posted by sartorialism View Post

I wore 3-piece suits as a student-intern. I loove those babies.

+1 to me as well
post #132 of 132
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Originally Posted by lasbar View Post


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Originally Posted by xpress View Post

Wearing a 3 piece charcoal suit as I type.


Spent the morning in two meetings...


Closed one deal I've been working on for a little better then a month ... And built a great relationship with a new potential client!


If you look great in a 3 piece suit, who the hell cares!





I also love the 3 piece charcoal suit very much...

Its a really powerful look. I was doing some consulting work at a trendy suit store a while back and the owner said you look like an English barrister. I said, I know.
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