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Advice on meeting with a Mentor

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Looking for suggestions and or advice on how to get most out of a mentoring program I am about to join and what is the best way to run each session.

A General Manager at my work has agreed to mentor me for a period of 6 months. I am catching up with him in the next day or two to discuss how we go about this and what we both want to get out of this. According to my company's mentoring framework, we would be required to meet once a month over the 6 month period.

I have put it to him in my requesting email that from my end, I am fundamentally looking to get out this reflective dialogue and professional influence in the areas of

"¢\tCritical thinking
"¢\tThought Leadership
"¢\tInfluence and Interpersonal Relationship
"¢\tTaking a broader view of issues and challenges faced in business
"¢\tReflection and strategising a "˜directionally correct"˜ career path

Do those points sound reasonable? Is there anything I should change or anything I could/should add in addition?

I am thinking at the moment that each session could be split between points of issues and reflections of the previous month and, discussion on a particular theme related to some of my points above. Would that approach work?

Without naming my mentor, his background is Strategy, he is an ex consultant, and currently runs "˜initiatives' "˜within the business and is considered amongst senior exec's as a super sharp performer. I do not know him personally very well beyond his background other than having on one previous occasion a coffee with him about his role. Having a very thin existing relationship I think has its in merits in that it should allow for a more honest and objective relationship to develop.

I already appreciate that mentoring is not about bringing into the scope of discussion personal issues or rubbishing your existing manager or colleagues.

I currently work for a large Fin Services company as a BA and look towards moving into strategy work. I do not necessarily like working in the corporate world however since I am my intention is to make the most of it.

Thoughts appreciated.
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post #3 of 6
The mentoring program will depend a lot on the mentor himself and your relationship with him. We had something like this in the past at some of the firms I have worked and peoples' experiences have been mixed. However, a few strategies seemed particularly effective. 1. Use it to network. While you are working with the mentor, ensure that you get to meet many people and develop some small connection with them. The mentor can establish some credibility for you and provide introductions. 2. Gain a valuable reference. If possible, try to make the mentor experience less formal and less of a 'sage-apprenntace' relationship. I have see some of these programs turn into the mentor gloating about war stories for 2 hours just basking in the apprantance's gaze. However, the mentee was not able to translate this into something useful on a resume. Try to make it less formal. Once, it is more personal and the mentor knows your work product you can often gain a stellar reference. So far these are probably two of the most obvious things to do but perhaps sometimes the most obvious strategies are the ones over looked. Cheers.
post #4 of 6
ask him if he's ghey and wants to suck your cack. if he says no move on and try to gain what was said in the above post.
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Interesting to see that a member with 69 posts leaves rings around members with 3000+; who either seem to have issues with concentration or who have nothing better to do than waste not only there own time but also waste bits and bytes by replying with drivel.

Thanks jdcpa.
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