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post #46 of 60
9/29/09 at 10:04pm
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
This is true especially for younger women. Some won't ever grow out of the girl stage. Does anyone remember back in high school how the pothead kid who was going nowhere would rake in all the pussy while the str8 A college bound smart AZZes beated themselves off then cried to sleep?

I'll let you know about the other stuff when you graduate then.
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post #47 of 60
9/30/09 at 2:51am
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Originally Posted by VKK3450 View Post
Seriously OP, learn to be more comfortable in your own skin / around other people. No amount of posturing will make you more attractive than being confident about being yourself.

K

+1

When you try to be something you're not, it won't come off the way you want it too. To other people, something will "feel off."
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post #48 of 60
9/30/09 at 3:07am
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Originally Posted by gnatty8 View Post
+1

I have been attracted to plenty of womenz who were not much to look at, but when they spoke to me, I immediately found myself attracted. Helps that I am not 20 anymore and just looking for big breasteses and blatant promiscuity..

The M3 doesn't hurt...
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post #49 of 60
12/12/09 at 1:26pm
Let me preface this by saying that I have little to none of these characteristics...


- At least moderately physically fit. High body fat % tends to feminize the facial features.
- Funny without being "clownish"
- At least moderate intelligence and depth
- Humbleness...aside from Jersey girls, they generally get turned off by guys who take 20 minutes to do their hair...
- Perhaps most importantly...Not feigning over them and acting slightly indifferent. No one really wants someone they can have.
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post #50 of 60
12/12/09 at 3:36pm
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Originally Posted by BoilerRoom View Post
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- Perhaps most importantly...Not feigning over them and acting slightly indifferent. No one really wants someone they can have.

This.
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post #51 of 60
12/12/09 at 3:39pm
^^^Truth.
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post #52 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:18pm
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Originally Posted by TyCooN View Post
boring girls get fucked then dropped.

+10000000000
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post #53 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:20pm
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Originally Posted by willpower View Post
For women to be attracted to men -

Body language, confidence, Leader of Men, Protector of Loved Ones, the ability to communicate these qualities effectively

Power and protectiveness is a big one that make the ladies drop their panties.

If it was humor and intelligence, I'd be getting more ass than a toilet seat.

I have seen that humor is more important to younger (under 30) women and the other qualities you mentioned (intelligence, Leader of Men, Protector of Loved Ones) are more attractive to older women.
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post #54 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:23pm
I recently realized intelligence is something very important to me. Good looking girls who are just obviously empty-headed as soon as they open their mouth aren't much good, unless their mouths are open but they can't talk Being in college, I'm just trying to figure out what kind of girl I'm really in to. So far intelligence is high up there; physical attractiveness, of course; but also certain other things that I can't quite figure out. But those two things I've already mentioned will go a long way, and they're probably on just about everybody's list, so... On second thought, I'll add that a lack of self-esteem is really off-putting, especially when a girl or woman just constantly needs to be paid attention to, or always tries to steer the conversation towards herself. Also, a lack of a good sense of humor is awful, and I've met very few girls with a good one.
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post #55 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:23pm
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Originally Posted by APK View Post
-She doesn't need to have the encyclopedia memorized cover-to-cover, but I'd like to be able to talk about a myriad of things with her.

The constant need to build up her confidence becomes a chore.

+1 on both.
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post #56 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:25pm
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Originally Posted by Sebastian_Flyte View Post
Ways to become more attractive to women: don't supplicate to women

One of the most important traits...
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post #57 of 60
12/13/09 at 1:27pm
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Originally Posted by The Snob View Post
Definitely do not dress like a frat boy.

That eliminates about 90% of the guys out there...
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post #58 of 60
12/14/09 at 1:05am
That fine balance between confident, interested, but, somehow, not trying.
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post #59 of 60
12/14/09 at 12:31pm
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Originally Posted by tor View Post
On second thought, I'll add that a lack of self-esteem is really off-putting, especially when a girl or woman just constantly needs to be paid attention to, or always tries to steer the conversation towards herself. Also, a lack of a good sense of humor is awful, and I've met very few girls with a good one.
I'd say that in the "smart girl population" (good education, good job, well-adjusted), about 1 in 10 or less have a good sense of humor. Add another layer in for hotness, and you are looking at 1/50 or 1/100 chicks that are both hot and have a great sense of humor. Now find one of those who actually LIKES YOU or is not psycho, or is not taken (she probably is), and I'll tip my hat to you, good sir. A woman who can bust my balls, push my buttons, and make me laugh is rare. But it's really attractive.
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post #60 of 60
12/14/09 at 12:39pm
Correction, expensively dressed socially inept sartorial virgins.

"If only she knew how legitimate my denim was she'd be all over me! Look at these fades!!!"
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