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post #46 of 48
9/4/10 at 4:06am
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Originally Posted by pseudonym View Post
Bump for helpfulness. Small question: What's the best way to approach a girl (e.g. she's walking to a class, her dorm, etc.)?
You can essentially approach anyone at any time. Really. Try it and you'll see what I mean, it's kinda easy if you have a goal and set your mind to it.
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post #47 of 48
9/4/10 at 10:56am
I'll add that I was a commuter in undergrad due to major family medical problems, too. I know how it is. Maybe this isn't the awesomest magical advice, but its something that helped me, though my problems were a little different. I was bemoaning the situation to a Prof of mine who was a kind of mentor to me at the time, and he said, "Hunts, don't worry about it. Just try again. Just go out, and try again." That's what I did. Don't worry about reasons why or analyze too much, just go and try again. Nothing is better for confidence than one pleasant interaction.
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I especially need help talking to girls, most of the girls I meet automatically put me into the friend category due to my weight and I don't really get with that many girls...
Oh, can you read the mind of teh wimmenz? If you can't don't set yourself up immediately by saying that. ~H
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9/4/10 at 11:39am
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