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post #61 of 75
9/28/09 at 12:21pm
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Originally Posted by m@T View Post
really? I find it a remarkable bore that every second west24 post includes a mother joke that isn't funny.

Your mama's a remarkable bore.





But really, I enjoyed the silliness but grasp the less than highbrowness of it. He also, this time at least, chose his thread, well.
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post #62 of 75
9/28/09 at 9:29pm
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Originally Posted by jaytalon View Post
I'm starting to get real serious with a girl, but I'm sort of suspicious of her background. She may have been a stripper or something in her past.

Anyone know of a good, cheap background check service? Do I have to hire a PI?

why are you suspicious of her? that is not a good start to a relationship
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post #63 of 75
9/28/09 at 9:33pm
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Originally Posted by jaytalon View Post
Wow! This is seriously too funny. Someone with 20,000 posts to a forum is telling me how my relationships are going to be. Get off the computer and meet some real people! I'm obviously tagging hotter chicks than you can download, maybe you should take some advice from me.
Flawless logic. Pio, he is running background checks on your SF posts. You two might not be compatible.
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post #64 of 75
9/29/09 at 1:17am
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Well, I can see why that would influence your opinion. And at least it seems like your basing your opinion on a pretty decent amount of experience rather than just saying strippers are fucked up, full stop.

I guess I have been lucky because the strippers I have known socially have been pretty together. What gets to me is that people want to act like the simple fact that someone is a stripper is all you need to know about them in order to judge them as failures. That only a true fuck-up would strip and the act of stripping is its self so morally reprehensible that we can safely say anyone who does is going to be a fuck up in every other way.
At the end of the day its just tits and ass and the showing of. I prefer to save my moral condemnation for those whose actions cause pain, death, suffering and misery. Stripping does not hurt anyone.

I don't know that we're disagreeing so much. I didn't interpret Globe's statement as morally judgmental. There's a big difference between having a major character flaw and being *evil* or morally corrupt. In the context of being in a serious relationship I would have to say that every stripper I have ever known was too flawed to meet *my* expectations...by a long way, but I think I have pretty high standards. This is not that I am saying that they are bad people because actually, most that I knew seemed to be "good" people that have had bad things happen to them. This situation is hardly exclusive to strippers and I can sympathize but I do not see any of these girls having a "normal healthy relationship".
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post #65 of 75
9/29/09 at 12:52pm
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Originally Posted by NorCal View Post
Sorry Globe, but you're wrong on this one. As much as SF likes to make sweeping generalizations and shit on people, there are way to many different types of women that strip. To say they are all some form of failed scum is just plain fucked up arrogant bullshit.

I'll amend it to account for immigrants, and the occasional doctoral student doing a study. but I would be surprised if you find that many american born strippers who didn't have a messed up childhood or problems with early relationships. very very surprised.

that doesn't make them bad people - but you don't go against that much socialization without baggage.
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post #66 of 75
9/29/09 at 12:53pm
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Originally Posted by Faded501s View Post
I never thought I'd defend one of Globe's opinions .

wtf?
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post #67 of 75
9/29/09 at 12:56pm
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Originally Posted by NorCal View Post
Well, I can see why that would influence your opinion. And at least it seems like your basing your opinion on a pretty decent amount of experience rather than just saying strippers are fucked up, full stop.

I guess I have been lucky because the strippers I have known socially have been pretty together. What gets to me is that people want to act like the simple fact that someone is a stripper is all you need to know about them in order to judge them as failures. That only a true fuck-up would strip and the act of stripping is its self so morally reprehensible that we can safely say anyone who does is going to be a fuck up in every other way.
At the end of the day its just tits and ass and the showing of. I prefer to save my moral condemnation for those whose actions cause pain, death, suffering and misery. Stripping does not hurt anyone.

I don't think that it is morally reprehensible, not at all. I would go on to say that what I am talking about is more an issue of enviroments that have been rough on them, and not anything that is there fault.

but that doesn't change the basic concept - you don't come from a perfectly good childhood and chose to strip, without something very strange happening.
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post #68 of 75
9/29/09 at 12:58pm
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Originally Posted by jaytalon View Post
I'm starting to get real serious with a girl, but I'm sort of suspicious of her background. She may have been a stripper or something in her past.

Anyone know of a good, cheap background check service? Do I have to hire a PI?

Here in Maryland I always go to Maryland Judicary Case Search. Its also a good way of checking up on douche bags I went to HS with.
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post #69 of 75
9/29/09 at 3:10pm
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Anyone use intelius? What does Human Resources use?
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post #70 of 75
9/29/09 at 3:30pm
Don't know if this is true:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/If_you_do_..._check_on_them

but it should give you pause.
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post #71 of 75
9/29/09 at 3:47pm
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Originally Posted by jaytalon View Post
Anyone use intelius? What does Human Resources use?

you have to be a troll
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post #72 of 75
9/29/09 at 3:58pm
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Anyone use intelius? What does Human Resources use?

My HR department uses Securtech. I expect a post of the results.
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post #73 of 75
9/29/09 at 3:59pm
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Originally Posted by Agnacious View Post
Don't know if this is true:

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/If_you_do_..._check_on_them

but it should give you pause.

This is entirely inaccurate, as tons of bg search companies don't inform the subject when they've been searched.
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post #74 of 75
9/29/09 at 4:09pm
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Originally Posted by breakz View Post
This is entirely inaccurate, as tons of bg search companies don't inform the subject when they've been searched.

Is it? I don't know, everytime I was checked (that I know of) I had to sign a consent form.
Looking at some of the samples, I would have hoped some of that information was more private e.g. salary, homes, etc. I may have to run a check on myself to see what is available.
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post #75 of 75
9/29/09 at 5:02pm
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Originally Posted by Agnacious View Post
Is it? I don't know, everytime I was checked (that I know of) I had to sign a consent form.
Looking at some of the samples, I would have hoped some of that information was more private e.g. salary, homes, etc. I may have to run a check on myself to see what is available.

Yeah that form is for employment purposes. For business-related due diligence, no consent is required (at least from what I've seen/done).
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