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post #1 of 65
9/25/09 at 8:41am
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when i stay at my best friends place we often sleep in the same bed. we usually talk a little with lights off and then fall asleep. her mom thinks its slightly odd but she doesnt mind

have you ever shared a bed with your friend and whats your take on it?
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post #2 of 65
9/25/09 at 9:07am
It's OK.
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post #3 of 65
9/25/09 at 9:21am
This sounds like a situation where some sex should be having had with the girl.

Also, is the mom hot?
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post #4 of 65
9/25/09 at 9:36am
Serious question: is your best friend a dude?
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post #5 of 65
9/25/09 at 10:12am
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shes a girl and we have been best friends since 3rd grade
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post #6 of 65
9/25/09 at 10:20am
Most girls are reluctant to share a bed with someone they are "just friends" with and they feel is straight. Seeing as you have Zac Effron as your av, I don't think this is really an issue, so I don't see anything odd with the situation.
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post #7 of 65
9/25/09 at 11:25am
Ok for now, once you clear puberty write back for further evaluation.
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post #8 of 65
9/25/09 at 11:27am
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shes a girl and we have been best friends since 3rd grade

What grade are you in now?
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post #9 of 65
9/25/09 at 11:36am
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post #10 of 65
9/25/09 at 11:41am
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Ok for now, once you clear puberty write back for further evaluation.

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post #11 of 65
9/25/09 at 12:14pm
For guys beyond the age of maybe 10 that's a no. Funny story though. About 5 years ago myself, and three of my buddies and one of their GF's heads down to Mardis Gras in St. Louis. I know that sounds a bit odd, but St. Louis has a monster Mardis Gras celebration. Not close to NOLA, but maybe 200K in a small bar area south of downtown called Soulard. Anyway, we drive down get hammered drunk and cab it back. At the time I lived in a 1 bedroom flat in the city. All I had in the living room was a comfy chair (not quite a loveseat but with a huge ottamon) and a recliner. My buddy and his GF sleep on the comfy chair. My other two buddies crash on the floor. It was basically sleep where you pass out. This was a drunk fest from about 3 pm till 3 am. So my buddy on the comfy chair wakes up about 6 to take a piss. He looks down at our other two friends and, no shit, those to jackasses are spoonin!!! For years they denied it vehemently. But a couple of years ago they admitted that maybe they were. They had no idea, they were both plastered.
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post #12 of 65
9/25/09 at 12:23pm
When we go on trips and want to cheap out on a room, my guy friends will often split a bed. I am totally weirded out by sleeping beside another dude, so I usually work a way to sleep by myself or I get my girlfriend to go so I can sleep beside her. I don't understand how my guy friends are completely cool with that.
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post #13 of 65
9/25/09 at 12:37pm
One time I got plastered at a party with some work friends (this was a few careers ago). I was dragged back to a supervisor's apartment where she wanted to watch some chick-flick and cuddle (strange that I remember this). Anyway her roomie shows up with some more of our cohorts and things gather together and then break apart. I sleep on the floor. Later on, another guy from our group plops down on the floor. No trouble, right.

Well, I wake up a few hours later and feel an arm on my shoulder. I know it's him. I scoot away a little bit and go back to sleep. Later on, he's right there next to me. Him again. ... okay, I scoot further - this more or less puts me into a corner.

I wake up. There he is, snuggling up behind me in the corner. Wow - look at the time. I've got to go now. Thanx!!!
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post #14 of 65
9/25/09 at 12:37pm
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Originally Posted by GrillinFool View Post
For guys beyond the age of maybe 10 that's a no. Funny story though. About 5 years ago myself, and three of my buddies and one of their GF's heads down to Mardis Gras in St. Louis. I know that sounds a bit odd, but St. Louis has a monster Mardis Gras celebration. Not close to NOLA, but maybe 200K in a small bar area south of downtown called Soulard. Anyway, we drive down get hammered drunk and cab it back. At the time I lived in a 1 bedroom flat in the city. All I had in the living room was a comfy chair (not quite a loveseat but with a huge ottamon) and a recliner. My buddy and his GF sleep on the comfy chair. My other two buddies crash on the floor. It was basically sleep where you pass out. This was a drunk fest from about 3 pm till 3 am. So my buddy on the comfy chair wakes up about 6 to take a piss. He looks down at our other two friends and, no shit, those to jackasses are spoonin!!! For years they denied it vehemently. But a couple of years ago they admitted that maybe they were. They had no idea, they were both plastered.
I don't get it...two guys spooning? drunk or not that's as ghey as it gets.
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post #15 of 65
9/25/09 at 12:40pm
this is why you put a pillow between you. also natan tried to do this to me and I had to kick him to the floor
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