Real talk: This stuff scares the shit out of me. I'm not scared by a lot of things - physical confrontation and dangerous situations, career, all that might cause me to worry, but I figure that I can deal with it. But this, this scares me to the point where I am don't really want to be around it, not because I think I'll catch it or something, but because it makes me have to think about it, especially now that I have kids.
I think that as a good friend, it would be good to stay in close touch and offer support, but I'm realizing more and more that it takes a lot of strength and endurance to do that.