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post #1 of 49
9/20/09 at 5:32am
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sometimes my mom tries to hug me but it feels weird and i fight her off

i hate people touching me but i don't want to make her sad

any advice?
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post #2 of 49
9/20/09 at 5:39am
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any advice?

yes. remove zac efron from your avatar.

cheers
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post #3 of 49
9/20/09 at 5:44am
^ He is right.

Also, give your mom a hug when you have a raging hard-on, that should teach her a lesson.
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post #4 of 49
9/20/09 at 5:47am
my family was never really physically affectionate growing up so it always kind of weirds me out when someone randomly hugs me
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post #5 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:04am
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yes. remove zac efron from your avatar.

cheers

he makes my heart beat fast. do you prefer robert pattinson avatar?
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post #6 of 49
9/20/09 at 10:09am
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sometimes my mom tries to hug me but it feels weird and i fight her off i hate people touching me but i don't want to make her sad any advice?
It's your mom; she put up with you in her womb for nine months, then raised you and cleaned up your shit and puke and your screaming at all hours of the night. Then, she put off a lot of things she probably wanted to do in order to ensure that you had clothes for school and all of the other million little things that are required in raising a child. She could probably be driving around in a Bentley right now for what you cost to raise. So, in short, quit acting like a selfish, spoiled little bitch and give the woman a damn hug if she wants one. She won't be there forever and when she isn't, you'll probably realize what a douche you were for saying, "Eww, I hate people touching me! Murggghrrrrrrrrr."
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post #7 of 49
9/20/09 at 10:10am
Nazi's love hugs.
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post #8 of 49
9/20/09 at 11:21am
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sometimes my mom tries to hug me but it feels weird and i fight her off i hate people touching me but i don't want to make her sad any advice?
Not to be an ass, but I'm thinking your problem is more than a slight aversion. There's this syndrome that rhymes with 'merger'.... (There, I am one). I would explain the situation and try to find times when you can initiate contact vs her having to initiate it. Perhaps this is agreeable for you and her. I don't know of course, but maybe you don't like the surprise of intemacy. If you initiate, there is less surprise. Also, as others have said and as you are probably aware yourself. Mothers (and fathers) deserve special consideration. By the way, I somewhat understand where you are coming from. Up to the age of about thirteen, I thought kissing was disgusting. (other physical contact, I had no problem with)
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post #9 of 49
9/20/09 at 4:09pm
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It's your mom; she put up with you in her womb for nine months, then raised you and cleaned up your shit and puke and your screaming at all hours of the night. Then, she put off a lot of things she probably wanted to do in order to ensure that you had clothes for school and all of the other million little things that are required in raising a child. She could probably be driving around in a Bentley right now for what you cost to raise.

So, in short, quit acting like a selfish, spoiled little bitch and give the woman a damn hug if she wants one. She won't be there forever and when she isn't, you'll probably realize what a douche you were for saying, "Eww, I hate people touching me! Murggghrrrrrrrrr."

Plus fucking one.
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post #10 of 49
9/20/09 at 5:46pm
Roll on some E.
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post #11 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:17pm
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my family was never really physically affectionate growing up so it always kind of weirds me out when someone randomly hugs me
This is true.
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post #12 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:19pm
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Originally Posted by rach2jlc View Post
It's your mom; she put up with you in her womb for nine months, then raised you and cleaned up your shit and puke and your screaming at all hours of the night. Then, she put off a lot of things she probably wanted to do in order to ensure that you had clothes for school and all of the other million little things that are required in raising a child. She could probably be driving around in a Bentley right now for what you cost to raise.

So, in short, quit acting like a selfish, spoiled little bitch and give the woman a damn hug if she wants one. She won't be there forever and when she isn't, you'll probably realize what a douche you were for saying, "Eww, I hate people touching me! Murggghrrrrrrrrr."

Well said!
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post #13 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:29pm
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my family was never really physically affectionate growing up so it always kind of weirds me out when someone randomly hugs me
Weird, I grew up the same way, only now when I find myself craving hugs from strangers I know another bout of depression is on its way. Also to the OP, its because youre gay and youre not comfortable in your own skin. Its OK to like wang. Now go give your mom a hug.
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post #14 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:36pm
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It's your mom; she put up with you in her womb for nine months, then raised you and cleaned up your shit and puke and your screaming at all hours of the night.

I find it odd that Rach is so acutely aware of his molloskular origins.
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post #15 of 49
9/20/09 at 6:38pm
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I find it odd that Rach is so acutely aware of his molloskular origins.

All homos love they mommas. You want to see a rabid, angry homo, make fun of his momma.
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