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Why are women so ambigious?

post #1 of 62
9/10/09 at 4:40am
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So I take this girl out for a 2nd "date" for dinner. She goes on and on about how it's so hard to find a guy. She goes about how she can't even find a guy with a car, job, etc.

So I politely ask her if she ever thought about us being together. She scoffs No! why would I ever think about that? Well, Maybe b/c I'm a single guy with no kids and I fulfill every freaking category you just mentioned. I just don't get it.

Why am I so bad at reading women? How do I get better at this?
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post #2 of 62
9/10/09 at 4:47am
Have you only known her for those two dates? You say you asked her if she had "ever" thought of you two being together, which implies you've known her for longer. I'm thinking there is something very clear in her mind which was explicitly stated between you two that these dates were just friends. What was it?
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post #3 of 62
9/10/09 at 4:49am
You need to get her drunk.
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post #4 of 62
9/10/09 at 8:11am
IMO ditch her and move on. No sense in hearing no again. Women are strange creatures these days, well the ones in TN are...
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post #5 of 62
9/10/09 at 8:18am
Are you serious?
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post #6 of 62
9/10/09 at 9:28am
Sounds like you're trying to negotiate with her as though it were a business deal. It's not. Learn how to communicate nonverbally.
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post #7 of 62
9/10/09 at 9:41am
Don't you know by now that no doesn't always mean no.
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post #8 of 62
9/10/09 at 9:57am
you spooked her
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post #9 of 62
9/10/09 at 10:01am
You either got chemistry, or you don't...If not, doomed to be friends at best
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post #10 of 62
9/10/09 at 10:54am
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Anyone got a good book on this that I can read? I read through the mystery method, but it doesn't seem like it works for me.

Back to the girl - after I said that she started saying how she needed a year before she wanted to get into a relationship. Then she started saying that if something happened, then it happens. Not sure if she was talking about me or what. She talks in riddles.
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post #11 of 62
9/10/09 at 11:02am
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post #12 of 62
9/10/09 at 11:15am
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Originally Posted by gilwood View Post
Anyone got a good book on this that I can read? I read through the mystery method, but it doesn't seem like it works for me.

Back to the girl - after I said that she started saying how she needed a year before she wanted to get into a relationship. Then she started saying that if something happened, then it happens. Not sure if she was talking about me or what. She talks in riddles.
back to another eternal question here, did you pay for enitre meal or split the bill?
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post #13 of 62
9/10/09 at 11:15am
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Originally Posted by gilwood View Post
Anyone got a good book on this that I can read? I read through the mystery method, but it doesn't seem like it works for me.

Back to the girl - after I said that she started saying how she needed a year before she wanted to get into a relationship. Then she started saying that if something happened, then it happens. Not sure if she was talking about me or what. She talks in riddles.

There's no crazy like "woman crazy". The bold statement is all you need to know - and apply it to yourself.
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post #14 of 62
9/10/09 at 12:41pm
Are you, by any chance, a pussy?
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post #15 of 62
9/10/09 at 12:55pm
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Originally Posted by gilwood View Post
So I take this girl out for a 2nd "date" for dinner. She goes on and on about how it's so hard to find a guy. She goes about how she can't even find a guy with a car, job, etc. So I politely ask her if she ever thought about us being together. She scoffs No! why would I ever think about that? Well, Maybe b/c I'm a single guy with no kids and I fulfill every freaking category you just mentioned. I just don't get it. Why am I so bad at reading women? How do I get better at this?
When you hear the bolded that means she's not interested. Also "I'm not looking for a relationship right now" means that a girl is not interested... She just thinks you're her buddy. I hope you don't expect anything more because it isn't going to happen. If a girl's interested she'll let you know...
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