whatever you wear is ok, no need to be so worried. if you're spending too much money, you may think if maybe you are trying to fill emotional gaps in your life by buying clothes? in any case it can be a nice, healthy interest. to have an aesthetic sense is good... caring about clothes is good... just as not caring is also acceptable. the way people see you, especially when you meet new people, is influenced by some extent by your choices in what you wear. so it's natural that, if you're worried about what people will think, or if you're just being practical and not rigid in your beliefs, you'll want to give a certain image of yourself to them. you're passing an image - want it or not - and the importance of all this depends on how much you care about it... the money is yours, do whatever you want. buying confortable, quality, functional clothes is logical, but buying clothes that make you feel good also makes sense.
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4/19/06 at 7:20pm