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Originally Posted by
oroy38 
The friend category is a precarious position to be in. Avoid it if possible. If you're already in it, then try to get out as soon as you can. The longer you're in the friend category, the further your chances with that girl wither. Make your intentions clear without being too forward (don't give her cause for a sexual harassment lawsuit).
Yeah, I think overall you're right. And it'd be easier for all of us if women also made their intentions clear more often. I've even wondered if this girl said that to test me if I'm willing to hang around since she's seeing someone right now. I don't know, it's tough. The problem is that I really like her and don't want to push her. But, yes, the friend category has never worked for me before and I don't want to end up there again.
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Originally Posted by
willpower Don't date girls you work with. Nothing more awkward than having to see them after you break up. Instead, use them to introduce you to other girls. Befriend them and hit some bars after work. Other girls will be naturally attracted to you because you're with other females.
Good point.
