I dunno if it's fixable, but I suspect it's best I not spend my energy on that. I'm too young to decide if people if really are meant to be together indefinitely. I honestly feel like the best of our relationship was behind us, so maybe now is a good time to go our separate ways.
Or perhaps it will fix itself. The love of my life (3 yrs. together) left me in June of 2012 and I was devastated. In a couple weeks we will celebrate 7 months of being happily married! We both made mistakes and life is long (hopefully!) and strange...
All the best to you Brad and good luck.
p.s. Bortelli... you're a prick.