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post #73276 of 103457
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Originally Posted by Razele View Post

For the people that say having / earning money doesn't make you happy, tell me that when you taste poverty

Im talking about growing up in front of a swamp, in between two potato farms and eating weetbix for dinner five nights a week

I've been on both sides of that spectrum, not to that extreme but yeah pretty poor financially (my mother as doctor and head of a hospital was paid the equivalent of $135 a month), nowadays my parents could realistically buy anything they want (using them as an example) but we all agree health, happiness, and family are way more important. Me personally, about 2 times a day I contemplate selling all my shit except for my Orlebar Brown, moving to some clear watered caribbean island and searching for treasure on my extra leisure time (Jessica Alba circa 2005 included)
Point is the happiest I've ever been is at a place that is completely free and only one piece of clothing is required well not even that really biggrin.gif For me at least money doesn't bring happiness, it is very short lived when it does. I know I am writing this on a fashion forum where i myself have spent 1k on boots but at the end of the day all I am thinking about is jumping in that turquoise water and going fro a swim
post #73277 of 103457

lol, bunch of enablers here, selling the dream of living on a caribbean island with jessica alba.  

 

just quit your job, people with money aren't happy, do what you want, live now, be in the moment, #YOLO!  lol8[1].gif

post #73278 of 103457
Don't forget the treasure hunting man, too many wannabe wizards here not enough pirates teacha.gif
post #73279 of 103457
pirate vs. wizard fit battle?
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Anyone want to buy my size 40 brown carpe s21ms for a grand? Need immediate response
post #73281 of 103457
Money --> Happiness has diminished returns.

If you are upper middle class chasing paper might just add more stress. It really comes down to figuring out what makes you happy mike. I think the best advice here comes from the people saying to make sure the job you end up doing is the one yo enjoy doing the most. You are a smart educated dude so I don't think poverty will be an issue and, unless you want to have a shit ton of kids/big house, most jobs you can get at yer edu level (although this statement might be false in the next few years) will be able to get you more than just by. So pick what gets you interested and keep your mind open, there are a lot of unorthodox but awesome things you can do.

And learn some stats. Consulting jobs love stat backgrounds. But again, only if you like it. Good luck man, I hope it works out for you. Keep us posted. We are all sending you positive vibez biggrin.gif
post #73282 of 103457
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Originally Posted by mike868y View Post

There was an article somewhere about this a few month back where they found that happiness peaked at something like $70,000/year.

Creating some abitrary figure as "enough to make you happy" is bullshit. Happiness is based upon your expectations; if you expect to make $40k and pull down $70k, yes, I can see that you'd be pretty happy. If, however, you expect a certain lifestyle (say, similar to the one you grew up in) that you cannot afford as an adult, I cannot imagine that you'd be satisfied.
post #73283 of 103457

GO race in Europe mikey. By the time they kick out all the dopers they'll be digging through the Cat-astrophe 5 ranks for riders for the protour

post #73284 of 103457
Thanks guys for all the insights, they're really thought provoking. Glad to know I'm not the only one who is or has experienced some post-grad confusion
post #73285 of 103457
Dude just watch The Graduate
post #73286 of 103457
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Originally Posted by g transistor View Post

Dude just watch The Graduate

Ha I was just thinking of that movie and the "post-grad miasma"

But where's my Mrs. Robinson, huh?! HUH?!?
post #73287 of 103457
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Originally Posted by Urthwhyte View Post

GO race in Europe mikey. By the time they kick out all the dopers they'll be digging through the Cat-astrophe 5 ranks for riders for the protour

i'm literally in the process of convincing the rents to let me go to belgium this summer.
post #73288 of 103457
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Originally Posted by reedobandito View Post

Ha I was just thinking of that movie and the "post-grad miasma"

But where's my Mrs. Robinson, huh?! HUH?!?

Craigslist.
post #73289 of 103457
Bunch of ungrateful guys in here.

Be happy with what you have and stop thinking ahead to the future because the future is now!
post #73290 of 103457
since we're all making off topic posts...

if you had asked me when I was 16 where I would be at 26 the answer I'd have given would be as distant from where I am today as possible. when I was 16 I thought I had my whole life planned out -- I'd go to a great university, study something like business, and then try to get a well-paying job or go on to graduate school with the goal of becoming a professor (will i guess that part hasn't been that different). but shit happens. I got into the great school, but life interfered, and I was forced to take two years off between high school and college, and work my way into a four-year school via an associate's degree. as far as studying something useful? yea probably not -- double majored in english and history, and am finishing up an MA in history while applying for jobs and to other programs.

through this whole experience I've learned a couple things. first, I think the liberal arts gets a bad rap. I firmly believe that there is an inherent value in a liberal arts education, and my two years at the graduate level have taught me to think and to write at a level I couldn't have previously imagined. there is also something magical about doing original work, and knowing that what you're writing will exist forever, and could conceivably be used by hundreds or thousands of people over the next 50 - 75 years.

i also feel that life has a way of working out. ever since my grand life plan has collapsed, i've adopted much more of a wait and see attitude. you have no idea what's going to happen tomorrow -- a comet could hit, you could win the lottery, who knows? that doesn't mean you shouldn't plan anything, but don't premise your entire life on some imagined future that has only a small chance of actually coming about.

in short, don't worry about it so much reedo. and if you do go to graduate school for liberal arts (and this goes for everyone), do not go unless you have funding, and take every opportunity to get job experience and professionalization that you can. I am thankful everyday I put the hard work in to set myself up in a good position.
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