Wait, no one else is going to tackle this one? How is it that your friends and family have drummed up these assumptions based on your clothes? You've got a subdued wardrobe, even by normal standards (not a bad thing, mind you). What in the world are they wearing that they would look at your clothes and think "yup, gay," one of those barrels with the straps on them?
because i don't wear a hoodie and skate shoes :shrug: