Is this the sweater sipang got scammed on? http://www.styleforum.net/t/443555/bnwot-dries-van-noten-cherry-red-multi-yarn-sweater-drop
Should've posted an update on this. The guy actually refunded me without problem, said the sweater got held at his landlord for months and that he sent the money back when he finally received it but it apparently didn't make it through. I got my money back so it's all good as far as I'm concerned.