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post #16 of 27
8/1/09 at 6:28am
I've dated two girls who were frequently the center of male attention. The first, I absolutely hated it when she got hit on, because I always sensed a lack of loyalty. I swear I would lose a few tufts of hair and grind my teeth down everytime some dude approached her. I thought it was my problem. The second was much better looking, and even when she had all kinds of dudes staring at her, talking to her, etc. I was always flattered and it was an ego boost, I assume because she had an aura of loyalty (she was by far the most devoted girl I've dated). So for me, it depends on who it is. Generally speaking, if it was easy for me to get in the door, I tend to be more worried because of what that might signal about others.
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post #17 of 27
8/1/09 at 12:42pm
Not really anymore. The exception would be if something really vulgar was said or if the guido put his hands on her breasts/butt.
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post #18 of 27
8/1/09 at 1:05pm
My lady is saucy. If she felt uncomfortable by a dude approaching her, the way that she could emasculate him would be so much more creative than anything I could do. So, generally, I just let her take care of any men who approach. I know she's loyal, has a good head on her shoulders, and won't take shit from anyone. For example: she was in Tokyo last semester for school. She'd go to a bar and the Japanese sararymen woull approach: "You are beautifur because you are angoro-saxon. And Japanese size!" And she'd get free drinks. That makes me laugh more than anything else.
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post #19 of 27
8/1/09 at 1:14pm
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Originally Posted by Brian SD View Post
I've dated two girls who were frequently the center of male attention. The first, I absolutely hated it when she got hit on, because I always sensed a lack of loyalty. I swear I would lose a few tufts of hair and grind my teeth down everytime some dude approached her. I thought it was my problem. The second was much better looking, and even when she had all kinds of dudes staring at her, talking to her, etc. I was always flattered and it was an ego boost, I assume because she had an aura of loyalty (she was by far the most devoted girl I've dated). So for me, it depends on who it is.

Generally speaking, if it was easy for me to get in the door, I tend to be more worried because of what that might signal about others.

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post #20 of 27
8/1/09 at 1:29pm
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It's one thing to get a little upset but some people take it WAY too far, especially in the states I find. Not too long ago I had just arrived on a pretty long flight so I was a little tired and I saw this really attractive girl give me a smile, so I gave what I thought was a perfectly innocuous comment, and out of nowhere WHAM some bald guy headbutts me in the face!

What the fuck!



I think Mat makes the correct distinctions here. There's harmless attention, and there's dicks. Judge your responses accordingly. Also, from experience, take the cue from the lady herself, how to handle it. If the lady in question really abhors confrontation and/or threats of violence, she could end up pissed at you. Modulate yourself accordingly.

But general principle? Hell no! I got something some other guy wants. It's a compliment, IMO.
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post #21 of 27
8/1/09 at 1:57pm
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last actual fight i had was when i headbutted a guy who made a comment to my wife outside the airport, so i guess i do.
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It's one thing to get a little upset but some people take it WAY too far, especially in the states I find. Not too long ago I had just arrived on a pretty long flight so I was a little tired and I saw this really attractive girl give me a smile, so I gave what I thought was a perfectly innocuous comment, and out of nowhere WHAM some bald guy headbutts me in the face! What the fuck!

you guys met !?
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post #22 of 27
8/1/09 at 2:05pm
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post #23 of 27
8/1/09 at 2:06pm
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post #24 of 27
8/2/09 at 3:49am
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Originally Posted by m@T View Post
Inspired by some back and forth with Javyn in the Why do you workout thread, curious if people care when they see their gf/wife/SO being hit on.

Personally, I just don't care. My last couple of gfs have both been pretty sought after, and left alone, the sharks will circle. I kind of can't control that, and just figure that letting them buy her drinks ultimately saves me money, and she's still coming home with me....soooo...don't care.

Anyhow, others?

Not really, I trust her and her judgement in how to handle other guys. What I care about is if someone disrespects her as in laying hands on her angrily, or name calling her all because she politely rejected them. Then I won't tolerate that being done towards her because I love her and she doesn't deserve to be threatened or demeaned when out with her friends.
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post #25 of 27
8/4/09 at 5:06pm
Ages ago the wife and I (not my wife then) were at a bar for New Year's with a bunch of friends. I was playing pool and when I returned to my seat there was a guy sitting in it talking to my girl. She introduces me to this guy - who's obviously very drunk - we kind of laugh, and I go off to get some drinks.

I come back, this guy is still there, silent, with all my friends now seated along with him and glaring at him. Apparently he tried to grab her by the hand and lead her out of there after she turned him down three or four times.

I was tempted to beat the shit out of him, but HE WAS SMALL! Like, 5'5" or 5'6", and about 135-145 (for reference, I'm 5'9" and 170, and my friends are all six-footers).

I told him I'm going to take a piss and he'd better get gone. Came back and he'd vanished.
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post #26 of 27
8/4/09 at 5:18pm
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i dont like girls that flirt with other people if they are "with" me in any way... lay down the law gentlemen

+1

It would piss me off. It's disrespectful imo. I wouldn't make a scene over it in public but i'd probably drop her pretty fast if she wasn't willing to change her ways.
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post #27 of 27
8/4/09 at 5:55pm
I could care less if somebody is flirting with my lady. I don't really feel the need to mark my territory. Just means she is attractive to the opposite sex. I know who she is coming home with.

Now if she is flirting with someone else while I'm there, that is a whole other set of problems.
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