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post #16 of 25
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Originally Posted by jay allen
Whenever this happened to me, as a much younger guy, I would nail everything in site. Some people drink, others play video games, etc......I chose to get as much tail as humanly possible. If she was cheating on him she really wasn't much was she? I could see being crushed if your girl decided you weren't right for her.....or became a nun/lesbian/transexual, but she was fucking someone else. Come on....get pissed, get laid, get over it. There are approx. 3 BILLION women in the world. It is highly unlikely she was the only one that is interesting, smart, and sexy. Just be glad you found out NOW that she can't keep her pants on. You dodged a bullet....

This usually helps a lot. Also, it makes you realize that the thing your friend liked best wasn't necessarily her, but moreso just having someone there for him. Maybe this isn't true, but I would be hard pressed to say that he lost his one-and-only. But I don't know the whole situation.
post #17 of 25
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Originally Posted by jay allen
Whenever this happened to me, as a much younger guy, I would nail everything in site. Some people drink, others play video games, etc......I chose to get as much tail as humanly possible. If she was cheating on him she really wasn't much was she? I could see being crushed if your girl decided you weren't right for her.....or became a nun/lesbian/transexual, but she was fucking someone else. Come on....get pissed, get laid, get over it. There are approx. 3 BILLION women in the world. It is highly unlikely she was the only one that is interesting, smart, and sexy. Just be glad you found out NOW that she can't keep her pants on. You dodged a bullet....

I don't know what your age is, BUT my generation (well, some of us) are a bit weary of "˜nailing everything in site', because frankly some of the shit out there is scary. Forget about AIDS (which is 100% fatal, and it is a horrible, horrible death...which can be avoided by offing yourself if you knew you had AIDS and it started to get past the point you are willing to accept the pain), what really worries me is the diseases you have to live with.

Personally, I don't want to be 80 years old and having to deal with VD's on top of everything else that happens to your body naturally when you are 80. Personally, I rather be safe than sorry. And yes if that means getting less tail, but having more meaningful relationships (after all, you want your life to mean something, yes?) than so be it.

I'm a realist.

Jon.
post #18 of 25
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Originally Posted by imageWIS
I don't know what your age is, BUT my generation (well, some of us) are a bit weary of "˜nailing everything in site', because frankly some of the shit out there is scary. Forget about AIDS (which is 100% fatal, and it is a horrible, horrible death...which can be avoided by offing yourself if you knew you had AIDS and it started to get past the point you are willing to accept the pain), what really worries me is the diseases you have to live with. Personally, I don't want to be 80 years old and having to deal with VD's on top of everything else that happens to your body naturally when you are 80. Personally, I rather be safe than sorry. And yes if that means getting less tail, but having more meaningful relationships (after all, you want your life to mean something, yes?) than so be it. I'm a realist. Jon.
You may be a realist....and I respect that.....but curling up on the couch with a gallon of Ben and Jerry's and watching reruns of Friends isn't my idea of "Getting Over Her". I'm 44 and have never had an STD....and long ago lost count of my sexual partners. I've been married for 5 years and couldn't be happier. If you think you can have a meaningful relationship without sex....you are kidding yourself...or are so young you don't know better. NEWS FLASH...women want sex as much, or more, than guys do. When a guy finally figures that out.....the world becomes a better place. So....I stand by my comments. Getting laid is GOOD for you. If we weren't supposed to have lots of sex.....we would go into heat once a year like a dog. As for meaningful relationships.....they are great......but take months/years to develop.....and a strong physical relationship goes a long way towards developing one. Look, no offense intended, but it is usually guys that couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fistful of hundreds, that want meaningful relationships.
post #19 of 25
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Originally Posted by jay allen
You may be a realist....and I respect that.....but curling up on the couch with a gallon of Ben and Jerry's and watching reruns of Friends isn't my idea of "Getting Over Her". I'm 44 and have never had an STD....and long ago lost count of my sexual partners. I've been married for 5 years and couldn't be happier. If you think you can have a meaningful relationship without sex....you are kidding yourself...or are so young you don't know better. NEWS FLASH...women want sex as much, or more, than guys do. When a guy finally figures that out.....the world becomes a better place. So....I stand by my comments. Getting laid is GOOD for you. If we weren't supposed to have lots of sex.....we would go into heat once a year like a dog. As for meaningful relationships.....they are great......but take months/years to develop.....and a strong physical relationship goes a long way towards developing one. Look, no offense intended, but it is usually guys that couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fistful of hundreds, that want meaningful relationships.
Dude, you completely misunderstood my post. No one ever said to have relationships without sex, god no. Hell, try to get it as often and for as long as possible; in the relationship. And regarding ‘getting over her’ well, its happened to me before and will happen again, but I hardly sit down with ice cream and watch TV…I’m not a girl (in case ‘Jon’ didn’t give it away before). I would advocate going out, not staying in, but also as others have stated not meaningless sex either. Also, I didn’t specify length of my view of a ‘meaningful relationship’, which is well, about 2-3 months, tops. What I am saying is going out fucking everything that moves when on the rebound, or even if you’re not, is not my idea of a good time, because of the risks involved. I’m not saying that my dick up some chicks ass is not a good time, of course it is! However, a few hours is of fun is hardly worth a lifetime of moments of displeasure. Out of curiosity, have you known someone that died of AIDS? I look it at as different strokes for different folks: some people like to go to clubs everyday of the week and dance the night away, while others like house parties. They can be quite different from one another, but both can lead to fun, and sex. Jon. And oh god, whorehouses, I got dragged to this one in St. Martin and…on further thought, I’ll just yadda, yadda, yadda, and this is why I don’t like whorehouses (that and why pay for something that I can get for free?) (I think the moderators are going to clean m y post for me…call it a gut feeling)
post #20 of 25
Time is the only thing that's going to heal that wound. Same shit happened to me and it took me 2 years to get over her. It made me a better person though. Thicker skinned, and little bit (ok, a lot!) more selfish! Which did me a lot of good. Women want a man, not a spineless jellyfish. Not to mention, now I don't feel like a hamster running in a wheel when some bitch is leading me on, or whatever. I just move on, and no longer allow myself to get shit on. You gotta convince your friend to be the shitter and not the shittee.

I second Jay's nail everything in sight advice. And adding my own, get drunk, really drunk.

I don't know how old you guys are, but there will come a time when you stop thinking with your heart, and start thinking with your penis. Then things will get MUCH better, and you'll see why being a man rules.
post #21 of 25
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Originally Posted by javyn
I don't know how old you guys are,
Oddly Familiar is 16, so presumably his friend is about the same
post #22 of 25
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Originally Posted by LA Guy
Been there, done that. More than once.

Depeche Mode?
post #23 of 25
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Originally Posted by jay allen
You may be a realist....and I respect that.....but curling up on the couch with a gallon of Ben and Jerry's and watching reruns of Friends isn't my idea of "Getting Over Her".

Hahahah
post #24 of 25
Who needs 'em...


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Originally Posted by Vaclav
Depeche Mode?
Ha! Perfect. "All I ever wanted/ all I ever needed/ is here/ in my arms." (As you're cradling a fifth of Johnnie Walker.)
post #25 of 25
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Originally Posted by Vaclav
Depeche Mode?

Nah, breakup songs are best in the "Classic rock" genre. Check out "Famous Final Scene" by Bob Seger and the Silver Bullet Band in Stranger in Town. Only way to keep your dignity after the 5th Johnnie Walker.
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