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post #1 of 63
7/19/09 at 3:40pm
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Friday evening. She was there with friends, my friends had left but I stuck around and hung out with them for ~1 hour. I'm 21, she was maybe 25 and pretty cute. We flirted a little, I had to catch a 2am train but she put her number in my phone before I left. I texted her last night and she said "the night was a blur" and needless to say doesn't remember me. She seemed no where near blackout when I left so I didn't see this coming. I am only in Chicago until mid August then have one more year of school. It was my first time at Fizz Bar but it was a nice place and I plan on going back. What do I do now?
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post #2 of 63
7/19/09 at 3:47pm
you txtd and she didnt reply. Strike 1.

Call her. If she dont reply, well, get the hint. Your only there for a short time, so fuck it. What have you got to lose? Annoy her tell she says otherwise.
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post #3 of 63
7/19/09 at 3:48pm
this might help:

http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=45742
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post #4 of 63
7/19/09 at 3:49pm
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Oh no no, she replied to the text saying "sorry, the night was a blur", I said I shouldn't have bought us those choc cake shots (which I did shortly before leaving).
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post #5 of 63
7/19/09 at 3:56pm
Just keep swimming.
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post #6 of 63
7/19/09 at 6:11pm
Nothing will come of this unless you turn into the pickup artist and get a feathery top hat.
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post #7 of 63
7/19/09 at 6:30pm
Ask her out to lunch, with a phone call. Stop being such a wuss. People still call each other, right?
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post #8 of 63
7/19/09 at 6:41pm
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Originally Posted by DarkNWorn View Post
Ask her out to lunch, with a phone call. Stop being such a wuss. People still call each other, right?

I didn't like her that much.
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post #9 of 63
7/19/09 at 6:47pm
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I didn't like her that much.

You like her enough to start a post about her here. And it became pretty apparent you want to stick your penor in her. But you don't want to go to lunch with her?
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post #10 of 63
7/19/09 at 6:56pm
your first mistake was texting her. stop being a wuss and call her
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post #11 of 63
7/19/09 at 7:11pm
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Originally Posted by TheD0n View Post
Friday evening. She was there with friends, my friends had left but I stuck around and hung out with them for ~1 hour.

I'm 21, she was maybe 25 and pretty cute. We flirted a little, I had to catch a 2am train but she put her number in my phone before I left.

I texted her last night and she said "the night was a blur" and needless to say doesn't remember me.

She seemed no where near blackout when I left so I didn't see this coming.

I am only in Chicago until mid August then have one more year of school. It was my first time at Fizz Bar but it was a nice place and I plan on going back. What do I do now?

Shouldn't have worn office pants.
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post #12 of 63
7/19/09 at 7:14pm
"It's such a blur" is what we call an excuse. You were interesting/cute enough to buy her drinks while she was drunk, but now she sobered up.

Severely disappointed that the Internet has not birthed a "She's Just Not That Into You" parody poster.
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post #13 of 63
7/19/09 at 7:15pm
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You like her enough to start a post about her here. And it became pretty apparent you want to stick your penor in her. But you don't want to go to lunch with her?

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post #14 of 63
7/19/09 at 7:37pm
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Originally Posted by TheD0n View Post
Friday evening. She was there with friends, my friends had left but I stuck around and hung out with them for ~1 hour.

I'm 21, she was maybe 25 and pretty cute. We flirted a little, I had to catch a 2am train but she put her number in my phone before I left.

I texted her last night and she said "the night was a blur" and needless to say doesn't remember me.

She seemed no where near blackout when I left so I didn't see this coming.

I am only in Chicago until mid August then have one more year of school. It was my first time at Fizz Bar but it was a nice place and I plan on going back. What do I do now?

A night being a blur does not mean you don't remember anything... unless she said so. Otherwise it may just mean it was a wild night with a ton of stuff that went on. So, chill out, give her a text a few days from now and see if she wants to get together for drinks sometime. After she responds go from there.
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post #15 of 63
7/19/09 at 7:52pm
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You were interesting/cute enough to buy her drinks while she was drunk, but now she sobered up.

Come on, we all should know here once we buy girls drinks they talk to us for reasons we don't want.

I bought her and her friend one shot and left soon after.
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